No matter what anyone thinks of Obama's politics, it is so refreshing to have a dedicated family man and a couple who really love each other in the White House.
I'm sure he figured this was the best time to make his confession given the fighting going on right now over the MA Senate race results. Easier to sneak past a public that isn't really paying attention to you.
Bo, You people can turn a article about Jesus Christ the savior into the Devil in sheeps clothing. Now lets compare the lies, Who lied us into a war in Iraq that has murdered innocent civilians and killed many of our bravest in the military? Admit it you can't stand the thought of Bush being the biggest disaster this country has ever had. And we are all paying the price of his and Cheneys deception.
Yes Edwards made a mistake, At least he is man enough to stand up and be accountable. Bush went into hiding the day he left office. Cheney is out "spreading the propoganda" to try save his @$$.
I dont see how he did it. I dont see how he couldnt be a part of his daughters life. From the very moment I saw my first child I knew that I would never leave and there wasnt anything I wouldnt do to give her, and now her two sisters, a good life.
Like this doesn't happen a few thousand times a day in our country. Regular citizens have affairs all over the place and it's glossed over. But for some reason when the people we vote into office or some celebrity has an affair it's front page news!
If we don't condemn it in our society, how hypocritical are we all for picking out the few that are in the public spotlight and demonize them? But in America, double standards aren't unusual,,,,,,,they're the norm.
I am pretty sure that the previous first couple loved each other as well. So I don't get the "refreshing" part of your statement. Edwards never occupied the White House.
Much like his wedding vows, I expect this promise to go by the board as soon as some other hottie looks his way. A first class dirt bag. Hopefully this will be the last news we hear of him.
This story is about John Edwards only. Off topic posts are distracting --- AND DRIVE ME CRAZY!!!
OK. I'm calmed down now.
Mr Edwards first had the affair. He broke a solemn promise to his wife.
A child resulted from the affair, likely from lack of birth-control (that's a guess). That was just poor judgement. Sex will do that.
Then he "vehemently denied the child was his", when he knew it was a lie. He lied to the public to whom he served.
His lies and broken promises have shown me that he not worthy of public trust. However, he is a human, subject to mistakes, and subject to forgiveness. But that will take admission of his transgressions, and then time to earn that trust back. A lot of time.
BO, This post is about Edwards not Obama. Your hate is over the top, but at least get on subject. We don't care about your hate for Obama. What constructive thing comes from that????
My heart goes out to Elizabeth Edwards - it's bad enough that he cheated on her but look at whom he chose to have an affair with!! And to think that this woman will no doubt have a relationship with the Edwards children after their mother is gone is appalling! How disappointing - what about their personal decisions having a public impact do these politicians not 'get'?? And what is going to stop them from making bad choices once they are in higher office and the public's - not just their family's - welfare is at stake?? And come on guys: are you incapable of using a condom???
Remember he is a professional---in South Asia the term is"liyer"--- he is also basically a scumbag. A smooth talking good looking scumbag whom made a lot a money blaming hospitals and physician's for 'luck of the draw' problems.
Two ways to dramatically reduce health care costs are to insist on real 'malpractice' before any compensation AND to limit the number of scumbags working for the great and powerful insurance industry. establishmentpayment.....and claim.
BO, You did hit on something. Had the state run media reported this WHEN THEY KNEW, it would have changed the political landscape. The votes that Edwards got in the primanries would have almost certanly gone to Hillary, and Obammy would have ebded up second on the primaries and a presdential candidate, which we have found outt, he is WAY over his head, he is a ROOKIE.
This man used his wife's illness in his campaign in many ways. He wanted us to feel sorry for the family man with a sick wife. He asked people to email her for support, then taking those email addresses to solicit campaign funds.
Imagine what he would have done to the American people if he where president!!
and don't even get me started on how he used people to become a multi millionare.
Princess - Unbelievable that anyone could turn around and put the BLAME on the wife. Any man that cheats on his wife is disgusting and any woman that is part of that affair is also disgusting. You feel sorry for him WOW. If Elizabeth loves him do the right thing and let him go before she dies??? What about Him doing the right thing and not having the affair, stand by your mate that has been there for you when she is going through the most difficult thing any human being could suffer through. By the way if you had read the whole article you would have seen that they are seperated. Very sad that Elizabeth Edwards has to go through fighting for her life alone, but she does have her children and she appears to have the integrity, strength, compassion, and honesty that her husband lacks.
Homesickyank, We don't know if Obama has dirty laundry or not so don't make statements that he is all clean cut and a happy family. The press protects him. But as far as Edwards goes what business is it of ours. It is his family being dragged through the mud. Same is if Obama ends up having dirtly laundry what business would it be of ours. Certain personal family business should stay personal and family. We tend to forget that there are usually hurt wives, nad children involved and they should be allowed to deal with these things without the rest of the country being forced to be involved.
If the media had done its job when this first came out instead of slavering over a rumor regarding John McCain, the Presidential race would have been much different.
So many comments about Mr. Edwards. Few about the women who knowingly had an affair with a married man, and had (apparently) unprotected sexual relations with him. No doubt she'll be a "good mother" and "role model" too.
I agree. Edwards is a pig. And regardless of your politics, having a solid family in the white house is a strong and healthy thing for the moral health and well-being of the country. But I take exception to "refreshing". The Bushes also exhibited a strong and solid marriage. You could argue that perhaps their kids were not as cute and wholesome, but of course, they were also not little girls either.
So many comments about Mr. Edwards. Few about the women who knowingly had an affair with a married man, and had (apparently) unprotected sexual relations with him. No doubt she'll be a "good mother" and "role model" too.
Finally, someone who feels the same way I do! I can understand a woman becoming involved with a married man if she doesn't know he's married (because he's lying to her) - and I can even see where in such a situation, it would be difficult to end the relationship once you found out the man's marital status. However, women who get involved with public figures that they KNOW are married are just as much of scumbags as the men are. It's true with Rielle Hunter, it's true with the women Clinton was involved with, it's true of Tiger's string of bimbos - it's true of ANY woman who makes the choice to have an affair with a married man. They know what they're doing is wrong, and they do it anyhow, so they should get just as much blame as the man.
Are you saying that Ford, Carter, Reagan, GHW Bush and GW Bush were lesser family men than Obama? I don't know much about Johnson or Nixon as far as how they were portrayed as family men but I doubt that Obama is much better than them in that category either. One recent president is missing in this list however.
Is there anyone here that thinks the timing of this announcement is mere coincidence?
Now that the Democrats have lost credibility you will start to see the liberal media dump the dirt they have on them with hopes that the American people will forget their transgressions by the time of the elections.
They know that we only have a 6 month memory!
Certainly it has worked in the past! Maybe you can remember how 95% of the American people in February indicated they thought President Clinton should be impeached if his sexual incidents in the oval office proved true. By August of that year only 45% believed the same. It only took 6 months for the liberal media to brainwash us into believing that his behavior was acceptable.
Regarding Edwards ... I'm from North Carolina and have apologized for not doing enough to keep him from being elected to the Senate in the first place. His history of ambulance chasing and burdening the health care industry is legendary. He has personally done more to hurt the average American than any other individual, with regard to health care costs. He set a precedent in requiring doctors nurses order countless unnecessary procedures to keep from the possibility of being sued for malpractice.
Edwards is and always been a pretty boy con-artist.
What a piece of Chit! The only reason he's taking responsiblity is because one of his people is coming out with a book this week, that states Edwards was going to pay him off if he would state that he was the father of the child! How does your wife & family feel about you Mr. Edwards??? You are scum!
I won't comment on the President because as far as I (or anyone else) know (s) he has been faithful. I will however comment on the lowlife John Edwards, someone so sorry he had an affair as his wife began battling terminal cancer. To top that off he lied on camera (too many times to count) for two years!!! Imagine if he were President, whoever was his veep would very likely be assuming the office!! Of course the good times aren't over yet as Mr. Edwards has some 'splaining to do to the FBI since he (allegedly) diverted campaign funds to his baby mama!! We'll see how this ends up but regardless he is scum and deserves nothing more than contempt!!
I believe he is a social path. He demonstrates no remorse, he is ppathological liar, he is callous, manipulative and conning. What scares me, is he could of been our President. Each time he's been confronted with any issues regarding this affair, he has denied them even in the face of evidence. You never know what people are capable of and that includes our politicians. Edward's is a sicko and I thank God he was exposed before the political process made him a candidate to be President of our country. It makes me wonder how many other politians fall into the same category as Edwards.
I wonder why Tiger Woods is so hated right now, when people in much higher and influential positions have done the same thing. We just love Bill Clinton, and it is rumored that he was with more than 5 women, just got caught with one. At least Woods has single-handedly raised millions for charity and will continue to do so. He still is wrong for what he did, but how about a little fairness in the media here.
PJ - You are on the wrong post. This isn't about Tiger Woods. I'm sure if you look hard enough you can still find an active blog someplace where you can defend the manslut, Tiger.
Edwards is the biggest lying piece of crap since Nixon. Cheating on your wife when she is dying of cancer! Fathering a child with a staffer! Running for president when all this is going on. He makes Bill Clinton look almost moral.
The state run media has mostly given this scumbag a free pass. Please recall it was that tower of journalism, The National Enquirer , that broke this story. For months, the elite media would not pick it up. Turns out they were right all along. I wonder how many Pulitzer Prizes the Enquirer will win next year?
While this piece of sh*t is getting a free pass, every move and every utterance by Sarah Palin is trashed by the media. All she did was say "yes" to McCain to try to help the country. They lost fair and square, yet the screeching continues.
You have no idea if they really love each other or not...talking about those two in the White House. They do have their disdain for America as a common bond though so that's something.
Exactly, if this was Sara Palin's husband the lame stream media and far left loons would have had a bloodbath party. Ripping her and her family to to shreds with their snake-like fangs. But because he is a pig democrap POS they protected him, even when the proof was there and being leaked. Still it was kept very, very quiet because they wanted the rookie Odonkey to win. So sad for our country that the people have to wait another 3 years for a new president. Thanks lame stream media jokers!
princess, your perspective is refreshing! All those old ideas about marriage and religion just don't reflect the reality of human life. Yes, life is sordid! now let's get on with without all the hypocrisy. All these people who were taken in by John Edwards while he used his wife's health to gain their sympathies feel used, and foolish, and they need to blame someone other than themselves. But they wanted to believe him. They wanted life to be the fairytale they heard in church. Meantime, life goes on outside all around you. And death. Teach your children the truth about life so that they have the ability to make rational choices for themselves, and maybe they can avoid John Edward's dilemma as they mature.
I've wiped cleaner things out of the crack of my azz than this guy. He is nothing more than a poster child for all politicians. He just happened to be stupid enough to get caught. No where on earth can you find a higher concentration of thieves, murderers, rapists, whores, con artists, liars, cheats, moral degenerates, child molesters, money launderers, drunks, felons and drug addicts than in the collective whole know as American politicians.
He always was a slimy greaseball, going back to the days he was THE malpractice lawyer in his state. He did more damage to health care in his state than anything coming out of Washington ever will!
Edwards is called an Abusive Husband. Look at the abuse he has spewed at Elizabeth, and especially his own children from this first marriage.
Those kids are emotionally damaged for life. He really is a dirtbag. Dirtbag such as described in a dicitionary.
He also is a Narcissist of the worst kind. His word and reputation will never be repaired, even if he has turned to religiion. He's as fake as his fake "hair".
Pompous turkey. Could have been your President. He better dig a big hole for himself. No aplogizing. This is the worst of the worst in a man. Wimp?
Tyler, I've got a feeling that if we could do full genetic testing at least four or five generations back at least 30% of us wouldn't be here if our real parents hadn't been just that stupid.
I am a single man and I know I can't be/don't won't to be monogamous. I enjoy life and the world and variety way too much. I will never marry. I will never lie before God and Man in a church and take vows.
To Edwards and other men who can't be/don't want to be monogamous: be true to yourself, for goodness sakes, and stop hurting other people.
I believe that marriage should, indeed, be until "death do you part." I believe in the sanctity of marriage. I think it's a great institution...just not for me.
I guess even a moralistic hypocrite such as Edwards has come to the conclusion that papahood, no matter if you are married to one woman or more is a responsibility that will come and get you no matter how much you try and hide......the DUH! factor has struck again.
He'd have denied her to the grave if he could have gotten away with it. This little girl doesn't stand a chance, with a crazy mother and a liar for a father.
That's what I liked most about President Bush and President Bush Senior, and now President Obama.
Of course I'm sure President Obama may have women throw themselves at him because of his celebrity, but I hope he will have the will to turn them away.
Yeh, the whole thing is sordid, sad and oh so human. Our presidencies always seem to have enough trouble without adding in a guy who can't figure out how to use a condom when cheating on his wife, in the middle of running for the highest public office.
The child looks a bit like Elizabeth, eh? Wouldn't that be rich, if she grows up to resemble the wife, instead of the father or the mistress? Even better, if she grows up to have more character than the father than the mistress put together. One can hope, for her sake.
If you thought Edwards was a scumbag before, he is in Haiti RIGHT NOW "helping" all the victims of the quake.
How does a trial lawyer help quake victims? Maybe he's looking for someone who wants to sue Bush or God or Gaea or whoever the liberals are blaming this tragedy on today?
Burn: You forgot "self-righteous". I remember how self-righteous he was and how he was going to save the poor. Right. The man couldn't even save himself.
Rodger: He could easily have become President if the cards came his way. It's strictly a crapshoot. He fooled many people. He wasn't the only one. I'll leave it there. Don't want to be accused of being "off topic", even though it's most certainly "on topic". How easily people are fooled by these smooth talkin' frauds and charlatans.
In the interests of fairness and balance I need to point out that at the same time Democrat slug Edwards made his announcement Republican slug Mark (no relation to me) Sanford made his "last" apology for abandoning his State to go down and hike an Argentinian mistress!!
Princess, you are a fool if you believe the little love story bit re: Edwards and the mistress. She was grabbing for fame & cash, and he was dumb enough to fall for it, because he's another narcissist. He's a liar and a loser, Rielle's a golddigger. You are right about one thing, though. Mrs. Edwards SHOULD set him free (as in, kicking him to the curb). I saw JE speak during scary-Kerry's campaign and he was as sleazy as they come back then. He'll get just what he deserves in the end.... What a shame that the children have such a lying sh$t of a dad!
she is to be blamed for getting involved with married man... and on top getting pragnent.. what did she expect from him... cheating on his wife with her...
I often wonder how someone in his shoes deals with such a complicated situation on a daily basis. The burden must be tremendous much like the fetters of Marley's ghost when he visited Scrooge one Christmas Eve.
We must hope Edwards finds solace in his life as we, too, could just as easily mess up our lives in some way beyond our comprehension, yet also hope we have the strength to recognize such danger from the onset.
EWS 100, I agree. I know all those righteous people would want to tell me I had made a mistake after 53 years of being certain I fathered no children because I am both irresponsible and poverty-stricken. I met a ukraine woman whose husband was unable to conceive. After sharing an apartment with her for four years in Prague where she came to find employment, I knowingly conceived the child with her that she wanted so badly for so long. When she return to ukraine to bear this child I imagined the little family would live happily ever after. Fortunately, this little boy is nobody but my son. His mother has consistently brought him to me to role model, and to me he has bonded. I've raised other women's children before. I have known many women intimately. I have never known this love between me and my son. It is a fortunate thing that life is so chaotic, and that we commit rash acts while engaged in sexual activity. Am I a scumbag for screwing the ukrainie guys wife? You bet I am, and that's my son. He knows who his father is.
Healthy! The genetic mix is incredible. Intelligent! Unconsciously bi-lingual! Beautiful! Send a request to my e-mail and I'll be happy to send you a picture. Lucky thing my existence is sooo undisciplined. Life, i wouldn't have really known it without experiencing this. That's all I'm here for. The experience. Don't let yours pass you by!
sex, money and booze, have been bringing down the mighty, since Samson got a hair cut. However; what a boring existence it would be without those three things.
Even George Washington appears to have had a out of wedlock child, a black one at that. It is just a reflexion on our being human, not Godlike.
If he had really been thinking about his family - first children - he would have made this announcement on a Friday, on a long week-end, where the news would have time to die down and his kids wouldn't have to deal with this at school. He really has a timing problem, doesn't he?
A man whose penis is more important than vows taken with his wife =
SELFISH, inconsiderate, cheating liar
A woman who is involved/gets pregnant (purposely?) with a married man =
golddigging slut
Men and women of this genre can NEVER be trusted again, most certainly not as a public figure or politician. They can't even run their own lives - I certainly don't want them trying to run mine!
Well, hopefully there is a special hell for cheating trash such as this, where they can go, screw each other for all eternity and stop hurting decent, innocent people with their selfish ways.
What kind of a role model cheats on his wife, children. Perhaps a role model in how to be a lier and cheat with bad morals, ethics.
C'mon Liz, your a wonderful women.....wipe off that scum and move on to a better place. Stop telling everyone you forgive him and are happy. It really annoy's me.
I think that happened LONG before Bill Clinton, Bo...
Think any actor, sports star, politician BEFORE 1990, and you'll probably come closer to the ACTUAL person "who made it OKAY for the American people to cheat on their wives"...
This isn't about politics...it is about a man who decided his wife and family were not as important as a casual fling. For that reason, and that alone, he is dirt. It doesn't matter what side of the aisle you are on.
How is this NEWS? Did anyone really believe him when he said that the child is not his? And, PEOPLE, remember that you are talking about a politician, not a religious leader! None of us is perfect. Let it go.
Bo, I have news for you. Human beings (and politicians) have been cheating on their spouses since there were human beings on earth. And I would not say that Bill Clinton "made it okay". People see him as a scumbag too.
Tina is right - humans have always cheated on their partners. Clinton certainly wasn't the first president to cheat on his wife. And in case anyone thinks it's a Democrat thing - Dwight Eisenhower had a mistress for years.
John Kennedy was a democrap pig for cheating on Jackie over and over and over again. Let's not forget Marilyn Monroe, she probably died of a broken heart from the Kennedy brothers using her and then throwing her to curb when they moved on to other women. And their father was a pig, too. Remember his affair w/Gloria Swanson????
Funny how people get all bent out of shape about a verse in Leviticus, but seem to be pretty much okay about violating the "Thou shall not commit adultery" commandment.
Poor Elizabeth my A$$! I'm willing to bet that she is or was as power hungry and greedy as John. If it were as bad as it seems and she is as strong as she is portrayed, don't you think she would have bailed on him long ago? Any woman worth her salt would have left a bum like him at the first whiff of this. She's in it for herself.
To those who suggest that Elizabeth Edwards divorce her husband:
One should consider that her present health probably prevents that. Also, it would seem likely that her current health insurance policy and coverage are contingent on her staying married to him, if only technically. I suspect that this is probably the least expensive arrangement for both of them. Besides, I would think that the man probably feels morally obligated to provide for his wife's care, especially now -- and in my opinion he should.
Think: How many of us would be lucky enough to get, much less afford, the health insurance necessary to treat pre-existing terminal breast cancer after divorce or a spouse's job loss? The Edwards situation provides a good example of why a responsible health reform bill should provide for the acceptance and reasonable cost of provding care for pre-existing health conditions.
NOTE: This is not an invitation to start an off-topic discussion of health reform on this forum. Please go to other Newsvine forums for that purpose.
Elizabeth Edwards is no angel in this at all. John is a scumbag, true, but Miss Wifey has a foul temper and mouth, and she has the nerve to act like her own @!$%# don't stink in this.
As a cancer survivor myself, I can say that I (and yes, I know I don't know them personally) was hurt more by what it did to Elizabeth than I was the fact that he did this.
genafan201 - I agree with you!! I don't call myself a cancer survivor - only survived Breast Cancer for almost 2 years. Then it came back, Just like Elizabeth's.
I know how she must feel. She is between a rock and a hard place. I am so thankful that I am only battling incurable cancer. I battled the cheating husband years ago, long before the cancer. That was hell itself. To have to battle both at the same time seems impossible.
I hate it when people talk bad about Elizabeth. Everybody should put their selves in her shoes. I'm sure besides the heartache she suffers due to HIM, she also carries the burden of what to do. Should she leave him, divorce him? Should she stay with him, knowing she is dying and the children will hurt even more without having their family together for as long as possible? These are things the HE put on her. Too bad he didn't think with the head on his shoulders. What a mess he has made all around.
How the man sleeps at nite, how the man looks at his wife, how he looks at his 3 children + one? If and when the consequences of his actions every really hit him (IF), he will probably pick up the closest gun and blow his brains out. How will he ever be able to live with himself IF that time ever comes!! And as the "other woman", I can only hope she gets whats coming to her. She ain't much.
He used to be my candidate, now I'm just ashamed of him. CANNOT believe he's so arrogant and has put his wife through all of this. God Bless you Elizabeth, my heart truly aches for you but you WILL get through this, I promise. "Your sins will find you out" won't they...sorry means nothing to the one person that loved you, support you when your son died and bore your children (in marriage). Mr. Edwards you ARE wrong, you've done wrong and you'll be on bended knee in front of your maker some day, you got some explaining to do.
genafan-the difference is that Elin is still young and will divorce Tiger and put together a very nice life for herself. Elizabeth is not as young and is dying. Building a new life for herself isn't necessarily an option. Her children will see for themselves what a POS their father is; kids always figure these things out for themselves when they grow up. I wish her the best; at least she'll be remembered for being a wonderful and strong woman. What will John's legacy be?
What does it matter how old the wife is, or how healthy they are? Bottom line is, both "fathers" dumped all over their families, but the public will get over the whole Tiger thing by April (Masters)...the Edwards wess will get brought up every election between now and the end of time...
fed up boomer: The things you mention went on long before the modern age. They just were not as publicized. How many average Americans knew that President Kennedy had mistresses? Probably not too many.
Tina-you are right. At least when it was private the wronged spouse could at maintain some dignity and privacy; now everything is public and the whole world knows your business. And rumor has it that Jackie Kennedy had her own flings going, and one of them was with RFK. If so good for her. What goes around comes around.
That all the priests are pedophiles. That surprises you? C'mon, this is the catholic church. Has anyone taken a look at muslim men recently? These ideologies are great tools to conceal cultures that cannot relate to women as equals.
Really Jamie? ALL priests are pedophiles? And you know this how? Or could it possibly be that you hav a grudge against the catholic church, and are using the MINORITY to prove the majority? There have been numerous studies and statistical analyses done regarding this issue. The proof is, that there are no more abusers in the church than there are in any other profession. I am not a religious person, but I think it is rediculous when people make these kinds of broad generalizations. People like you do much mroe hard with your fear-mongering than all the pedo priests put together.
Hunter knew Edwards was married, that his wife had incurable cancer, and that he had children. Yet SHE had an affair with him. BOTH are the scum of the earth!!! Selfish people with no concern of who they hurt. The affair was bound to come out and Edwards showed no love or respect for his family. I never, ever liked Edwards because I thought he had a sneeky look...guess I had that pegged correctly. Anyone that pays $450. for a haircut as Edwards did....well, that's conceit to the max!!!
It's interesting to see that in our age that the man now takes all the blame for infidelity, when it used to be the other way around. There is never any balance in our society. Where everyone has to take responsibility. This woman was the other half of an affair that bore a child, a woman is responsible for her own body, why wasn't she taking birth control? In the Tiger Woods case, Elin was clearly guilty of Domestic violence yet, had it been the other way around we would be waiting for the big spectacle of Tiger Woods attempted murder trail. I'm not say saying that these men weren't wrong in what they did but let's have some balance.
Hmm, let's see. I believe she was hired and paid well for all her services to candidate Edwards. Apparently she will continued to get paid if she and Edwards have an agreement or contract as reported in the article. I guess that means that sex does pay!
They're generally losers looking to get something from someone else. The problem when someone with something gets involved with someone who has nothing is that the nothing has nothing to lose, so they don't care. That applies to both sexes.
There you go again, elithian, telling truth again. Seems as if there is a big misconception about the marriage institution. It seems many powerless hope this big bad license will protect them from emotion. Psychology is suppose to protect us with conformity to the rules, not to provide rationale for independent thought! How, then, do I enslave my partner?
So what happened to REPUBLICANS Ensign and Stanford? Are they not dogs, scumbags,jerks?? Why doesn't the republican controlled media talk about them? Why isn't there more outcry from the right? When you screw your intern and pay off the family there should ne impeachment proceedings. When a Governor takes a state plane shouldn't there be charges? Clear double standard by the republican machine!
Sheesh, what Democrats have you been hanging out with? Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, Tiger Woods?
As far as forgiving Republicans go; have you heard of George Bush or capital punishment?
It's easy to scrutinize this mans actions and find fault . I'm sure he's paying quite a price for his actions as well . I believe the horrendous shame he is feeling for the the hurt his actions have caused others must be unbearable...
What a price to pay,,,,,I would not trade places with him !!!
I know that there is a saying : "what other people think of me ,is none of my business",,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,But when my actions and behaviors from my human faults and character defects cause hurt to others , I'm left with unbearable shame
Elithian, For someone being so critical about other peoples values you sure seem to have a lot of intimate knowledge, as if you speak from experience. SHEESH!
I believe the horrendous shame he is feeling for the the hurt his actions have caused others must be unbearable...
Are you kidding me???? If he had any sense of shame, or any concern for the feelings of his wife and family, he wouldn't have had the affair in the first place. I think that like most people who cheat (I don't say just men, because women cheat as well - in fact, almost as often as men nowadays), the only thing he regrets is that he was caught.
ITA Vicki!! I doubt he has any shame. If so, he wouldn't have done what he did. I think it is very rare to find someone who gets "caught" to be sorry for their actions. They are just sorry they got "caught". If John Edwards had a consciense (sp), he wouldn't have been the dog he is!
And as for Hunter, she's a nothing!! She knew whose bed she was getting into and who would end up hurt the most. It didn't matter!
And as for Elizabeth saying John made a mistake, she didn't mean the baby was a mistake. All she was doing was trying to not tell us how she really feels about her lying, cheating, low life, trash husband. If you decide to stay with a cheater, you can't tell people what you really think. Lets all give Elizabeth all the credit she deserves!! She is one hell of a Woman and I'm proud of her and how she has handled this situation (mistake).
"Edwards is not speaking publicly today, at least in part because of an ongoing federal investigation into whether campaign money was used to try to cover up the affair. He has denied wrongdoing."
So, he denies any wrongdoing. He denied the affair, he denied the child, are we supposed to believe he's telling the truth now?
Edwards - just another POS politician. These guys lie and lie and lie till they have no where to hide. Then they come clean and ask forgiveness and say they will be good. BS.
He was bewitched by Hunter's [warped] vision of who he was. Clearly a case of Narcissism if there ever was one - applied to Edwards and Hunter who both evidently thought they were bullet proof. They saw their reflections in each other's eyes. LOL.
Lyman that's probably true about most politicians, but you'll also have to include most of the human race. People are only as faithful as their opportunities.
So what? America is the land of infidelity, point blank; especially among the rich, powerful, and famous. If it was every possible to examine the lives of politicians, only a pitiful few would past the test of HONESTY and FAITHFULNESS. Within the category of the rich, well probably no one would be found to be HONEST or FAITHFULL. You know money has its' privaleges! The famous is a very sorry lot as spicy headlines and problems are daily occurances, along with every other poor behavior. So let us acknowledge that America is definitely a nation of ;'IF IT FELLS GOOD, OR YOU WANT IT, GO FOR IT; AND SCREW THE CONSEQUENCES!!!!!!'.
Well, that may be over generalizing. There are examples of fidelity although I must admit very few. Just remember; therew is a cheating woman for almost every cheating man! Some guys are on the down low.
When will we get in our heads, look at the evidence both scientific and anecdotal, and it's quite plain to see that mankind is not meant to be monogamous for life, very few and I mean very few life forms are. Unless you are mega-unattractive, if you have repeated opportunity to cheat with someone you are attracted to you will. It's nature calling. Yes you can have life long mates but very few are life long monogamous. If you've been married for 20 years and you are the one that cheated and got away with it you can feel a little relieved but chances are one of you have, but don't feel too relieved because both of you may have.
Reread original statement!!! No mention of gender, sexual orientation, or age!!
Just as easy for a woman to lift her dress an for a man to drop his pants. Just as easy for a woman to be dishonest as for a man to have his hand in the cookie jar. No difference between men and women when the topic is ethics.
I certainly don't want to be the one to point "moral fingers"at humans for being human ,,,,,,!! I believe it's the" human condition" or the way we're made according to the laws of nature
Check out our divorce rate. Not that all splits are caused by cheating but a whole lot of it is. Also, a lot of folks never get caught or manage to keep current spouses if they do. Infidelity is hardly limited to the rich and powerful. Long-term same partner sex looses it's drawing power after a while for some reason. Of course once changed the different cow eventualy ends up being in the same pasture. Deja vue.
Look at it this way, Name one thing more imortant to Americans besides money. Ask the question of anyone, "What is really important to you? Americans do not believe in commitments. All commitments must have an escape clause.
It doesn't take being rich or being a politician or even being a man to be a cheater!!
Believe me, I know. My former husband cheated on me, according to him (when he got caught and couldn't lie out of it) with more than 500 other women. And guess what?!? We were POOR!!
I am happy the Primary process sorted this out before he had the chance to run for President, sadly the lack of Family Values crosses party lines. My heart goes out to his wife.
Not sure what your talking about he is the one having a baby outside the marriage. No matter what the problems were between them nothing is solved by this kind of crap.
Elithian - You really do not like woman do you.. As for you making comments about Elizabeth Edwards Prove It or STFU. I do agree with you on one point, woman who go after or get involved with married men knowingly are just as morally and ethically wrong. But please Leave Elizabeth Edwards alone unless you have proof.
Whatever you think Elizabeth did or did not do...she didn't tell him to baldfaced lie to everyone in sight. I think most voters would have forgiven an affair...even one that resulted in a child. However, having an affair while you are campaigning for President is reckless. And lying so elaborately to cover it up is stupid. And what about birth control? Or self control? All he cared about was damage control.
Elizabeth didn't do any of those things. He self destructed.
@Elithian: People who publicly accuse others of moral wrongdoing -- in your case, Elizabeth Edwards -- but do not provide any verifiable proof of it, are people I don't waste time on.
Why is this SOB still in the news. He's a slimeball, a dirt bag,a dusch. He doesn't deserve even a word. What a con artist. How he deserves any sort of recognition is amazing. He should be smashing rocks in a prison somewhere.
John Edwards, what a wanker. You both nailed it right on with the "douche", no matter whether you spell it correctly or incorrectly. Really nice guy "yeah, I'm really sorry that I denied this is my daughter until people really ratted me out - now I'm ready to step up to the plate and be a good dad". Yeah, John, right, you have about as much integrity as Tiger Woods and Nike summed up together. That poor little kid will someday read about this some day or otherwise become aware of this; hopefully she will have contempt for this jackass for the rest of her life. What an idiot, and to think we could have had him as President!
Can I ask why this is in the news. We all knew it already. Did anyone have any doubt? Why is this a breaking story? Months ago Mrs. Edwards was on the Today Show or some such and said Edwards needed to admit it and she hoped he would do it in a classy way...quietly and do the right thing.
What a pig he turned out to be!
No matter what anyone thinks of Obama's politics, it is so refreshing to have a dedicated family man and a couple who really love each other in the White House.
What a scumbag!
I'm sure he figured this was the best time to make his confession given the fighting going on right now over the MA Senate race results. Easier to sneak past a public that isn't really paying attention to you.
Ok Bo, what lie was that?
OK, Body Odor, I'm guessing you don't like our President.,
Bo, You people can turn a article about Jesus Christ the savior into the Devil in sheeps clothing.
Now lets compare the lies, Who lied us into a war in Iraq that has murdered innocent civilians and killed many of our bravest in the military? Admit it you can't stand the thought of Bush being the biggest disaster this country has ever had. And we are all paying the price of his and Cheneys deception.
Yes Edwards made a mistake, At least he is man enough to stand up and be accountable. Bush went into hiding the day he left office. Cheney is out "spreading the propoganda" to try save his @$$.
I dont see how he did it. I dont see how he couldnt be a part of his daughters life. From the very moment I saw my first child I knew that I would never leave and there wasnt anything I wouldnt do to give her, and now her two sisters, a good life.
What a jerk. While I onetime admired this guy, I would not vote for him as dogcatcher.
ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT A SHOCKER! SOMEONE HAVING AN AFFAIR.
Like this doesn't happen a few thousand times a day in our country. Regular citizens have affairs all over the place and it's glossed over. But for some reason when the people we vote into office or some celebrity has an affair it's front page news!
If we don't condemn it in our society, how hypocritical are we all for picking out the few that are in the public spotlight and demonize them? But in America, double standards aren't unusual,,,,,,,they're the norm.
This is the real shocker.
I am pretty sure that the previous first couple loved each other as well. So I don't get the "refreshing" part of your statement. Edwards never occupied the White House.
Much like his wedding vows, I expect this promise to go by the board as soon as some other hottie looks his way. A first class dirt bag. Hopefully this will be the last news we hear of him.
This story is about John Edwards only. Off topic posts are distracting --- AND DRIVE ME CRAZY!!!
OK. I'm calmed down now.
Mr Edwards first had the affair. He broke a solemn promise to his wife.
A child resulted from the affair, likely from lack of birth-control (that's a guess). That was just poor judgement. Sex will do that.
Then he "vehemently denied the child was his", when he knew it was a lie. He lied to the public to whom he served.
His lies and broken promises have shown me that he not worthy of public trust. However, he is a human, subject to mistakes, and subject to forgiveness. But that will take admission of his transgressions, and then time to earn that trust back. A lot of time.
BO, This post is about Edwards not Obama. Your hate is over the top, but at least get on subject. We don't care about your hate for Obama. What constructive thing comes from that????
My heart goes out to Elizabeth Edwards - it's bad enough that he cheated on her but look at whom he chose to have an affair with!! And to think that this woman will no doubt have a relationship with the Edwards children after their mother is gone is appalling! How disappointing - what about their personal decisions having a public impact do these politicians not 'get'?? And what is going to stop them from making bad choices once they are in higher office and the public's - not just their family's - welfare is at stake?? And come on guys: are you incapable of using a condom???
Remember he is a professional---in South Asia the term is"liyer"--- he is also basically a scumbag. A smooth talking good looking scumbag whom made a lot a money blaming hospitals and physician's for 'luck of the draw' problems.
Two ways to dramatically reduce health care costs are to insist on real 'malpractice' before any compensation AND to limit the number of scumbags working for the great and powerful insurance industry. establishmentpayment.....and claim.
BO, You did hit on something. Had the state run media reported this WHEN THEY KNEW, it would have changed the political landscape. The votes that Edwards got in the primanries would have almost certanly gone to Hillary, and Obammy would have ebded up second on the primaries and a presdential candidate, which we have found outt, he is WAY over his head, he is a ROOKIE.
Princess, do you live in a fairytale world?
This man used his wife's illness in his campaign in many ways. He wanted us to feel sorry for the family man with a sick wife. He asked people to email her for support, then taking those email addresses to solicit campaign funds.
Imagine what he would have done to the American people if he where president!!
and don't even get me started on how he used people to become a multi millionare.
Princess - Unbelievable that anyone could turn around and put the BLAME on the wife. Any man that cheats on his wife is disgusting and any woman that is part of that affair is also disgusting. You feel sorry for him WOW. If Elizabeth loves him do the right thing and let him go before she dies??? What about Him doing the right thing and not having the affair, stand by your mate that has been there for you when she is going through the most difficult thing any human being could suffer through. By the way if you had read the whole article you would have seen that they are seperated. Very sad that Elizabeth Edwards has to go through fighting for her life alone, but she does have her children and she appears to have the integrity, strength, compassion, and honesty that her husband lacks.
Homesickyank, We don't know if Obama has dirty laundry or not so don't make statements that he is all clean cut and a happy family. The press protects him. But as far as Edwards goes what business is it of ours. It is his family being dragged through the mud. Same is if Obama ends up having dirtly laundry what business would it be of ours. Certain personal family business should stay personal and family. We tend to forget that there are usually hurt wives, nad children involved and they should be allowed to deal with these things without the rest of the country being forced to be involved.
Gosh, no, really (with apologies to K. Larson)!!!
So far..as far as we know.
Oh please! Just give it a little time and I'm sure the dirt will come out about Obama and his wife.
made a mistake?? hahhahah hate to be that child growing up.
"Sorry honey but youre a mistake"
Hhahahah Niiice i like that.
If he lied to the public and now comes out with the truth, no amount of apology would make it better.
im glad he didnt make the presidency. but again which president never lied.
but he got caught with his hand in the cookie jar, muhahahahaha
For those who insist on bringing Obama into everything: This story is about John Edwards!! A first class scumbag.
If the media had done its job when this first came out instead of slavering over a rumor regarding John McCain, the Presidential race would have been much different.
Oh wow..., what a surprise..., a polititian WITHOUT integrity. Who woulda thunk it?
but does Sky know that Brie's body is in the boat house and Father Damien is really a woman?
So many comments about Mr. Edwards. Few about the women who knowingly had an affair with a married man, and had (apparently) unprotected sexual relations with him. No doubt she'll be a "good mother" and "role model" too.
I agree. Edwards is a pig. And regardless of your politics, having a solid family in the white house is a strong and healthy thing for the moral health and well-being of the country. But I take exception to "refreshing". The Bushes also exhibited a strong and solid marriage. You could argue that perhaps their kids were not as cute and wholesome, but of course, they were also not little girls either.
So, he's got two baby mommas. Aww sh*% welcome to the real world, son!! LOL!
Finally, someone who feels the same way I do! I can understand a woman becoming involved with a married man if she doesn't know he's married (because he's lying to her) - and I can even see where in such a situation, it would be difficult to end the relationship once you found out the man's marital status. However, women who get involved with public figures that they KNOW are married are just as much of scumbags as the men are. It's true with Rielle Hunter, it's true with the women Clinton was involved with, it's true of Tiger's string of bimbos - it's true of ANY woman who makes the choice to have an affair with a married man. They know what they're doing is wrong, and they do it anyhow, so they should get just as much blame as the man.
I was thinking the same thing! WTF???
Are you saying that Ford, Carter, Reagan, GHW Bush and GW Bush were lesser family men than Obama? I don't know much about Johnson or Nixon as far as how they were portrayed as family men but I doubt that Obama is much better than them in that category either. One recent president is missing in this list however.
Is there anyone here that thinks the timing of this announcement is mere coincidence?
Now that the Democrats have lost credibility you will start to see the liberal media dump the dirt they have on them with hopes that the American people will forget their transgressions by the time of the elections.
They know that we only have a 6 month memory!
Certainly it has worked in the past! Maybe you can remember how 95% of the American people in February indicated they thought President Clinton should be impeached if his sexual incidents in the oval office proved true. By August of that year only 45% believed the same. It only took 6 months for the liberal media to brainwash us into believing that his behavior was acceptable.
Regarding Edwards ... I'm from North Carolina and have apologized for not doing enough to keep him from being elected to the Senate in the first place. His history of ambulance chasing and burdening the health care industry is legendary. He has personally done more to hurt the average American than any other individual, with regard to health care costs. He set a precedent in requiring doctors nurses order countless unnecessary procedures to keep from the possibility of being sued for malpractice.
Edwards is and always been a pretty boy con-artist.
What a piece of Chit! The only reason he's taking responsiblity is because one of his people is coming out with a book this week, that states Edwards was going to pay him off if he would state that he was the father of the child! How does your wife & family feel about you Mr. Edwards??? You are scum!
He denied his own child - LIAR
He had an affair while his wife was battling cancer - SCUMBAG
He has stood in front of the public time and time again and lied to our faces - TYPICAL POLITICIAN
All in all, a low life POS.
I won't comment on the President because as far as I (or anyone else) know (s) he has been faithful. I will however comment on the lowlife John Edwards, someone so sorry he had an affair as his wife began battling terminal cancer. To top that off he lied on camera (too many times to count) for two years!!! Imagine if he were President, whoever was his veep would very likely be assuming the office!! Of course the good times aren't over yet as Mr. Edwards has some 'splaining to do to the FBI since he (allegedly) diverted campaign funds to his baby mama!! We'll see how this ends up but regardless he is scum and deserves nothing more than contempt!!
I believe he is a social path. He demonstrates no remorse, he is ppathological liar, he is callous, manipulative and conning. What scares me, is he could of been our President. Each time he's been confronted with any issues regarding this affair, he has denied them even in the face of evidence. You never know what people are capable of and that includes our politicians. Edward's is a sicko and I thank God he was exposed before the political process made him a candidate to be President of our country. It makes me wonder how many other politians fall into the same category as Edwards.
I wonder why Tiger Woods is so hated right now, when people in much higher and influential positions have done the same thing. We just love Bill Clinton, and it is rumored that he was with more than 5 women, just got caught with one. At least Woods has single-handedly raised millions for charity and will continue to do so. He still is wrong for what he did, but how about a little fairness in the media here.
PJ - You are on the wrong post. This isn't about Tiger Woods. I'm sure if you look hard enough you can still find an active blog someplace where you can defend the manslut, Tiger.
Edwards is the biggest lying piece of crap since Nixon. Cheating on your wife when she is dying of cancer! Fathering a child with a staffer! Running for president when all this is going on. He makes Bill Clinton look almost moral.
The state run media has mostly given this scumbag a free pass. Please recall it was that tower of journalism, The National Enquirer , that broke this story. For months, the elite media would not pick it up. Turns out they were right all along. I wonder how many Pulitzer Prizes the Enquirer will win next year?
While this piece of sh*t is getting a free pass, every move and every utterance by Sarah Palin is trashed by the media. All she did was say "yes" to McCain to try to help the country. They lost fair and square, yet the screeching continues.
Liberal Journalism = Hypocrisy = Irrelevant
You have no idea if they really love each other or not...talking about those two in the White House. They do have their disdain for America as a common bond though so that's something.
Exactly, if this was Sara Palin's husband the lame stream media and far left loons would have had a bloodbath party. Ripping her and her family to to shreds with their snake-like fangs. But because he is a pig democrap POS they protected him, even when the proof was there and being leaked. Still it was kept very, very quiet because they wanted the rookie Odonkey to win. So sad for our country that the people have to wait another 3 years for a new president. Thanks lame stream media jokers!
princess, your perspective is refreshing! All those old ideas about marriage and religion just don't reflect the reality of human life. Yes, life is sordid! now let's get on with without all the hypocrisy. All these people who were taken in by John Edwards while he used his wife's health to gain their sympathies feel used, and foolish, and they need to blame someone other than themselves. But they wanted to believe him. They wanted life to be the fairytale they heard in church. Meantime, life goes on outside all around you. And death. Teach your children the truth about life so that they have the ability to make rational choices for themselves, and maybe they can avoid John Edward's dilemma as they mature.
You know John Edwards can't wait for his wife to kick the bucket!
I've wiped cleaner things out of the crack of my azz than this guy. He is nothing more than a poster child for all politicians. He just happened to be stupid enough to get caught. No where on earth can you find a higher concentration of thieves, murderers, rapists, whores, con artists, liars, cheats, moral degenerates, child molesters, money launderers, drunks, felons and drug addicts than in the collective whole know as American politicians.
He always was a slimy greaseball, going back to the days he was THE malpractice lawyer in his state. He did more damage to health care in his state than anything coming out of Washington ever will!
homesick yank,
You are so right… When President Obama looks at his wife or children, he just pours out full of love for them… It really makes me feel good…
Edwards is called an Abusive Husband. Look at the abuse he has spewed at Elizabeth, and especially his own children from this first marriage.
Those kids are emotionally damaged for life. He really is a dirtbag. Dirtbag such as described in a dicitionary.
He also is a Narcissist of the worst kind. His word and reputation will never be repaired, even if he has turned to religiion. He's as fake as his fake "hair".
Pompous turkey. Could have been your President. He better dig a big hole for himself. No aplogizing. This is the worst of the worst in a man. Wimp?
Way to go Tiger.. uh, I mean Eddie!
She is a beautiful little girl who did not ask for this, so I hope that she does not pay the price for how she came to be.
1.2 deleted, BO_is_FULL_of_BS derailing, gimmick troll. Banned.
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How preposterously stupid do you have to be to father a child with your mistress, by the way?
Tyler, I've got a feeling that if we could do full genetic testing at least four or five generations back at least 30% of us wouldn't be here if our real parents hadn't been just that stupid.
I am a single man and I know I can't be/don't won't to be monogamous. I enjoy life and the world and variety way too much. I will never marry. I will never lie before God and Man in a church and take vows.
To Edwards and other men who can't be/don't want to be monogamous: be true to yourself, for goodness sakes, and stop hurting other people.
I believe that marriage should, indeed, be until "death do you part." I believe in the sanctity of marriage. I think it's a great institution...just not for me.
I guess even a moralistic hypocrite such as Edwards has come to the conclusion that papahood, no matter if you are married to one woman or more is a responsibility that will come and get you no matter how much you try and hide......the DUH! factor has struck again.
Edwards is a turd. I called it years ago. An arrogant, Know it all, liberal turd.
Wonder if federal charges will be filed on Edwards for his mis use of campaign money.
John Edwards, is a wannabe! He is nothing more than a southern dumbass! Thats too bad...Im from the South!
George Bush was a great husband, father and had family
values....lest you have forgotten.
homesick yank - what makes you think Obama does not cheat or fool around? It seems to me that EVERY PRESIDENT has.
Frankly - In my opinion, John Edwards made this announcement because he has not been getting any press lately.
He'd have denied her to the grave if he could have gotten away with it. This little girl doesn't stand a chance, with a crazy mother and a liar for a father.
George W Bush was a drunk until recently. How is that being a great father and husband?
That's what I liked most about President Bush and President Bush Senior, and now President Obama.
Of course I'm sure President Obama may have women throw themselves at him because of his celebrity, but I hope he will have the will to turn them away.
Yeh, the whole thing is sordid, sad and oh so human. Our presidencies always seem to have enough trouble without adding in a guy who can't figure out how to use a condom when cheating on his wife, in the middle of running for the highest public office.
The child looks a bit like Elizabeth, eh? Wouldn't that be rich, if she grows up to resemble the wife, instead of the father or the mistress? Even better, if she grows up to have more character than the father than the mistress put together. One can hope, for her sake.
John Edwards is my Daddy too. Where do I collect?
Yawwwwwwn.
Man bites dog.
Obama admits he's a "progressive."
If you thought Edwards was a scumbag before, he is in Haiti RIGHT NOW "helping" all the victims of the quake.
How does a trial lawyer help quake victims? Maybe he's looking for someone who wants to sue Bush or God or Gaea or whoever the liberals are blaming this tragedy on today?
Burn: You forgot "self-righteous". I remember how self-righteous he was and how he was going to save the poor. Right. The man couldn't even save himself.
Rodger: He could easily have become President if the cards came his way. It's strictly a crapshoot. He fooled many people. He wasn't the only one. I'll leave it there. Don't want to be accused of being "off topic", even though it's most certainly "on topic". How easily people are fooled by these smooth talkin' frauds and charlatans.
In the interests of fairness and balance I need to point out that at the same time Democrat slug Edwards made his announcement Republican slug Mark (no relation to me) Sanford made his "last" apology for abandoning his State to go down and hike an Argentinian mistress!!
Princess, you are a fool if you believe the little love story bit re: Edwards and the mistress. She was grabbing for fame & cash, and he was dumb enough to fall for it, because he's another narcissist. He's a liar and a loser, Rielle's a golddigger. You are right about one thing, though. Mrs. Edwards SHOULD set him free (as in, kicking him to the curb). I saw JE speak during scary-Kerry's campaign and he was as sleazy as they come back then. He'll get just what he deserves in the end.... What a shame that the children have such a lying sh$t of a dad!
hey thanks for the late braking news flash msnbc. its only about 1 year late. how do i get a job with you guys.
The man is absolute filth his career as a politician is over
she is to be blamed for getting involved with married man... and on top getting pragnent.. what did she expect from him... cheating on his wife with her...
She's mentally ill too. Poor little girl doesn't stand a chance.
He wants to be a good father?
Well, part of being a good father is being a good role model. And in that department, he's fallen flat on his face.
He certainly has, sparcboy.
I often wonder how someone in his shoes deals with such a complicated situation on a daily basis. The burden must be tremendous much like the fetters of Marley's ghost when he visited Scrooge one Christmas Eve.
We must hope Edwards finds solace in his life as we, too, could just as easily mess up our lives in some way beyond our comprehension, yet also hope we have the strength to recognize such danger from the onset.
yeah im sure it hard to stay away from women bowing at your feet.
yeah uh huh, stop thinking with the wrong head, you'll get ahead in life dont you think??
Guess the haircut's weren't the only $500 expenses he had.
EWS 100, I agree. I know all those righteous people would want to tell me I had made a mistake after 53 years of being certain I fathered no children because I am both irresponsible and poverty-stricken. I met a ukraine woman whose husband was unable to conceive. After sharing an apartment with her for four years in Prague where she came to find employment, I knowingly conceived the child with her that she wanted so badly for so long. When she return to ukraine to bear this child I imagined the little family would live happily ever after. Fortunately, this little boy is nobody but my son. His mother has consistently brought him to me to role model, and to me he has bonded. I've raised other women's children before. I have known many women intimately. I have never known this love between me and my son. It is a fortunate thing that life is so chaotic, and that we commit rash acts while engaged in sexual activity. Am I a scumbag for screwing the ukrainie guys wife? You bet I am, and that's my son. He knows who his father is.
Healthy! The genetic mix is incredible. Intelligent! Unconsciously bi-lingual! Beautiful! Send a request to my e-mail and I'll be happy to send you a picture. Lucky thing my existence is sooo undisciplined. Life, i wouldn't have really known it without experiencing this. That's all I'm here for. The experience. Don't let yours pass you by!
Notice he didn't say he wanted to be a good husband...
sex, money and booze, have been bringing down the mighty, since Samson got a hair cut. However; what a boring existence it would be without those three things.
Even George Washington appears to have had a out of wedlock child, a black one at that. It is just a reflexion on our being human, not Godlike.
If he had really been thinking about his family - first children - he would have made this announcement on a Friday, on a long week-end, where the news would have time to die down and his kids wouldn't have to deal with this at school. He really has a timing problem, doesn't he?
@ saxon, you're thinking of Jefferson. Washington had no children, just a couple of step kids from his wife's former marriage.
Scumbag.
lorelei, you are exactly right.
Baby Daddy!!!
A man whose penis is more important than vows taken with his wife =
SELFISH, inconsiderate, cheating liar
A woman who is involved/gets pregnant (purposely?) with a married man =
golddigging slut
Men and women of this genre can NEVER be trusted again, most certainly not as a public figure or politician. They can't even run their own lives - I certainly don't want them trying to run mine!
Well, hopefully there is a special hell for cheating trash such as this, where they can go, screw each other for all eternity and stop hurting decent, innocent people with their selfish ways.
I would only include the women who similarly cheat on their husbands and families and the slimeball men they filander with.
Want to be fair you know.
Of course he is......loser.
What kind of a role model cheats on his wife, children. Perhaps a role model in how to be a lier and cheat with bad morals, ethics.
C'mon Liz, your a wonderful women.....wipe off that scum and move on to a better place. Stop telling everyone you forgive him and are happy. It really annoy's me.
I think that happened LONG before Bill Clinton, Bo...
Think any actor, sports star, politician BEFORE 1990, and you'll probably come closer to the ACTUAL person "who made it OKAY for the American people to cheat on their wives"...
This isn't about politics...it is about a man who decided his wife and family were not as important as a casual fling. For that reason, and that alone, he is dirt. It doesn't matter what side of the aisle you are on.
What about former Senator Strom Thurmond (Republican from one of the Carolinas, he fathered a daughter that he hid from everyone) ?
How is this NEWS? Did anyone really believe him when he said that the child is not his? And, PEOPLE, remember that you are talking about a politician, not a religious leader! None of us is perfect. Let it go.
Bo, I have news for you. Human beings (and politicians) have been cheating on their spouses since there were human beings on earth. And I would not say that Bill Clinton "made it okay". People see him as a scumbag too.
Tina is right - humans have always cheated on their partners. Clinton certainly wasn't the first president to cheat on his wife. And in case anyone thinks it's a Democrat thing - Dwight Eisenhower had a mistress for years.
Allegedly so did FDR. President Harding had a "love child" and it was actually public knowledge back then.
And I believe the same was true with Grover Cleveland.
John Kennedy was a democrap pig for cheating on Jackie over and over and over again. Let's not forget Marilyn Monroe, she probably died of a broken heart from the Kennedy brothers using her and then throwing her to curb when they moved on to other women. And their father was a pig, too. Remember his affair w/Gloria Swanson????
My understanding is that Elenore Roosevelt was a lesbian, had partners, and was pleased that Franklin did, too. Mature working relationship. Honest.
Hey coko puffs, Who was aristotle onassis?
Funny how people get all bent out of shape about a verse in Leviticus, but seem to be pretty much okay about violating the "Thou shall not commit adultery" commandment.
You'd think adultery is perfectly fine.
It can be.
What a dog! I am sorry for Elizabeth, she should leave him in her dust.
Poor Elizabeth my A$$! I'm willing to bet that she is or was as power hungry and greedy as John. If it were as bad as it seems and she is as strong as she is portrayed, don't you think she would have bailed on him long ago? Any woman worth her salt would have left a bum like him at the first whiff of this. She's in it for herself.
Uhhhhh.....no matter that they have three children together, two still at home.
To those who suggest that Elizabeth Edwards divorce her husband:
One should consider that her present health probably prevents that. Also, it would seem likely that her current health insurance policy and coverage are contingent on her staying married to him, if only technically. I suspect that this is probably the least expensive arrangement for both of them. Besides, I would think that the man probably feels morally obligated to provide for his wife's care, especially now -- and in my opinion he should.
Think: How many of us would be lucky enough to get, much less afford, the health insurance necessary to treat pre-existing terminal breast cancer after divorce or a spouse's job loss? The Edwards situation provides a good example of why a responsible health reform bill should provide for the acceptance and reasonable cost of provding care for pre-existing health conditions.
NOTE: This is not an invitation to start an off-topic discussion of health reform on this forum. Please go to other Newsvine forums for that purpose.
Elizabeth Edwards is no angel in this at all. John is a scumbag, true, but Miss Wifey has a foul temper and mouth, and she has the nerve to act like her own @!$%# don't stink in this.
Say what you want about Elizabeth Edwards, but man, did she end up getting a raw deal all around.
What an absolute scumbag this guy turned out to be...
I only wish Elizabeth Edwards the best in trying to move on from this nightmare. She has enough to deal with battling cancer, for chrissakes.
As a cancer survivor myself, I can say that I (and yes, I know I don't know them personally) was hurt more by what it did to Elizabeth than I was the fact that he did this.
genafan201 - I agree with you!! I don't call myself a cancer survivor - only survived Breast Cancer for almost 2 years. Then it came back, Just like Elizabeth's.
I know how she must feel. She is between a rock and a hard place. I am so thankful that I am only battling incurable cancer. I battled the cheating husband years ago, long before the cancer. That was hell itself. To have to battle both at the same time seems impossible.
I hate it when people talk bad about Elizabeth. Everybody should put their selves in her shoes. I'm sure besides the heartache she suffers due to HIM, she also carries the burden of what to do. Should she leave him, divorce him? Should she stay with him, knowing she is dying and the children will hurt even more without having their family together for as long as possible? These are things the HE put on her. Too bad he didn't think with the head on his shoulders. What a mess he has made all around.
How the man sleeps at nite, how the man looks at his wife, how he looks at his 3 children + one? If and when the consequences of his actions every really hit him (IF), he will probably pick up the closest gun and blow his brains out. How will he ever be able to live with himself IF that time ever comes!! And as the "other woman", I can only hope she gets whats coming to her. She ain't much.
He used to be my candidate, now I'm just ashamed of him. CANNOT believe he's so arrogant and has put his wife through all of this. God Bless you Elizabeth, my heart truly aches for you but you WILL get through this, I promise. "Your sins will find you out" won't they...sorry means nothing to the one person that loved you, support you when your son died and bore your children (in marriage). Mr. Edwards you ARE wrong, you've done wrong and you'll be on bended knee in front of your maker some day, you got some explaining to do.
Paula, quick question. If Edwards had not been in the race, would you have voted for Obama or Hillary in the primaries?
What a dweeb!!! Another one thinking with the wrong head.
Well, I mean, really! Who would ever vote for a trial lawyer?
Wonder how he would have explained this if he had been chosen vice president?
And the difference is uvuvuv...the public will forgive Tiger and he'll be raking in the endorsements again soon enough...
Edwards however is toast.
SOUL MATE!
(This is the sarcasm club)
genafan-the difference is that Elin is still young and will divorce Tiger and put together a very nice life for herself. Elizabeth is not as young and is dying. Building a new life for herself isn't necessarily an option. Her children will see for themselves what a POS their father is; kids always figure these things out for themselves when they grow up. I wish her the best; at least she'll be remembered for being a wonderful and strong woman. What will John's legacy be?
What does it matter how old the wife is, or how healthy they are? Bottom line is, both "fathers" dumped all over their families, but the public will get over the whole Tiger thing by April (Masters)...the Edwards wess will get brought up every election between now and the end of time...
Edwards and Woods, sterling examples along with pedophelic priests of upstanding morality in the modern age. NOT!
Pedophelic priests? Did I miss something here?
How about the whoring, manstealing, adulteresses? ASre they scum too?
Every sin committed certainly has its consequences for all involved.
fed up boomer: The things you mention went on long before the modern age. They just were not as publicized. How many average Americans knew that President Kennedy had mistresses? Probably not too many.
Tina-you are right. At least when it was private the wronged spouse could at maintain some dignity and privacy; now everything is public and the whole world knows your business. And rumor has it that Jackie Kennedy had her own flings going, and one of them was with RFK. If so good for her. What goes around comes around.
That all the priests are pedophiles. That surprises you? C'mon, this is the catholic church. Has anyone taken a look at muslim men recently? These ideologies are great tools to conceal cultures that cannot relate to women as equals.
All priests are NOT pedophiles.
Really Jamie? ALL priests are pedophiles? And you know this how? Or could it possibly be that you hav a grudge against the catholic church, and are using the MINORITY to prove the majority? There have been numerous studies and statistical analyses done regarding this issue. The proof is, that there are no more abusers in the church than there are in any other profession. I am not a religious person, but I think it is rediculous when people make these kinds of broad generalizations. People like you do much mroe hard with your fear-mongering than all the pedo priests put together.
Someone tell him what a condom is for....
Fill em with water and throw em off the roof...
There is another issue here. Is is women who seek to have relationships with these men. Everybody wants to call Edwards the scum. What about Hunter.
Sheesh, you got to be kidding.
Good point Elithian,,,
Are we going to scrutinize the woman's behvior here???
She was willing to have an affair with John Edwards !!
Her imperative was biological; she was horny:P
Exactly ,,,,,,,,,,,both were horny !!!
Hunter knew Edwards was married, that his wife had incurable cancer, and that he had children. Yet SHE had an affair with him. BOTH are the scum of the earth!!! Selfish people with no concern of who they hurt. The affair was bound to come out and Edwards showed no love or respect for his family. I never, ever liked Edwards because I thought he had a sneeky look...guess I had that pegged correctly. Anyone that pays $450. for a haircut as Edwards did....well, that's conceit to the max!!!
It's interesting to see that in our age that the man now takes all the blame for infidelity, when it used to be the other way around. There is never any balance in our society. Where everyone has to take responsibility. This woman was the other half of an affair that bore a child, a woman is responsible for her own body, why wasn't she taking birth control? In the Tiger Woods case, Elin was clearly guilty of Domestic violence yet, had it been the other way around we would be waiting for the big spectacle of Tiger Woods attempted murder trail. I'm not say saying that these men weren't wrong in what they did but let's have some balance.
Hmm, let's see. I believe she was hired and paid well for all her services to candidate Edwards. Apparently she will continued to get paid if she and Edwards have an agreement or contract as reported in the article. I guess that means that sex does pay!
Hunter broke "the code" and probably has very few female friends that will let her around THEIR husbands.
JG, that haircut was the clue that he wasn't who or what he said he was - and the reason I changed my preference of candidates.
My my I am shocked he is the father-----NOT.
What a loser him and Woods should share a round of golf and talk of old times.
LOSERS
Actually they are winners and that is why women chase them. Let's talk about the women who chase these guys for awhile or are they innocent victims?
HELL NO, they're not innocent victims. They're drawn in by the power and fame, and throw morality out the window.
They're generally losers looking to get something from someone else. The problem when someone with something gets involved with someone who has nothing is that the nothing has nothing to lose, so they don't care. That applies to both sexes.
Telling a woman to leave her man is like telling fish to leave water. it will not happen and that is why Edwards cheats; because he can.
Each of your posts if further evidence of your disdain for the fairer sex. Why do you hate your Mommy?
There you go again, elithian, telling truth again. Seems as if there is a big misconception about the marriage institution. It seems many powerless hope this big bad license will protect them from emotion. Psychology is suppose to protect us with conformity to the rules, not to provide rationale for independent thought! How, then, do I enslave my partner?
So what happened to REPUBLICANS Ensign and Stanford? Are they not dogs, scumbags,jerks?? Why doesn't the republican controlled media talk about them? Why isn't there more outcry from the right? When you screw your intern and pay off the family there should ne impeachment proceedings. When a Governor takes a state plane shouldn't there be charges? Clear double standard by the republican machine!
There is no double standard. It is just not news that a Republican pig cheats.
Sheesh, what Democrats have you been hanging out with? Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, Tiger Woods?
As far as forgiving Republicans go; have you heard of George Bush or capital punishment?
Democrats proved with Clinton that they won't impeach for screwing the help.
I would not want to be in John Edwards shoes,,,
It's easy to scrutinize this mans actions and find fault . I'm sure he's paying quite a price for his actions as well . I believe the horrendous shame he is feeling for the the hurt his actions have caused others must be unbearable...
What a price to pay,,,,,I would not trade places with him !!!
I know that there is a saying : "what other people think of me ,is none of my business",,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,But when my actions and behaviors from my human faults and character defects cause hurt to others , I'm left with unbearable shame
Sheesh, he is probably think she was really a great F--k! He is probably also wondering when he can tap it again.
Yeah it's a high price to pay ,,,,,,,!
Some times I think the most honest relationship one can have, is with a prostitute ,,,,,,,,,,,no hidden agendas
Sheesh, you are kdding. There are as many hidden agendas as there are whores in Vegas and not all of them are masculine.
It's up front ,,,,pay for the service and be done
Elithian, For someone being so critical about other peoples values you sure seem to have a lot of intimate knowledge, as if you speak from experience. SHEESH!
Are you kidding me???? If he had any sense of shame, or any concern for the feelings of his wife and family, he wouldn't have had the affair in the first place. I think that like most people who cheat (I don't say just men, because women cheat as well - in fact, almost as often as men nowadays), the only thing he regrets is that he was caught.
ITA Vicki!! I doubt he has any shame. If so, he wouldn't have done what he did. I think it is very rare to find someone who gets "caught" to be sorry for their actions. They are just sorry they got "caught". If John Edwards had a consciense (sp), he wouldn't have been the dog he is!
And as for Hunter, she's a nothing!! She knew whose bed she was getting into and who would end up hurt the most. It didn't matter!
And as for Elizabeth saying John made a mistake, she didn't mean the baby was a mistake. All she was doing was trying to not tell us how she really feels about her lying, cheating, low life, trash husband. If you decide to stay with a cheater, you can't tell people what you really think. Lets all give Elizabeth all the credit she deserves!! She is one hell of a Woman and I'm proud of her and how she has handled this situation (mistake).
I don't doubt John Edwards is feeling shame ,,,,of course he does!!
I also agree that his wife appears to have more integity than both of the others ,,,,,,,,,,,,She's the one who is really hurt !!!
I also admnire her for the way she handeled this situation
Temptation to cheat and the opportunity to cheat were there, and both John Edwards and Hunter were willing to go through with the act
I don't think the consequences or the consideration of hurting others was even a consideration.
It's a human condition , I'm not saying it's OK to behave this way
I just hope all the posters are absolutely sure they would never fall to temptation and opportunity ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
"Edwards is not speaking publicly today, at least in part because of an ongoing federal investigation into whether campaign money was used to try to cover up the affair. He has denied wrongdoing."
So, he denies any wrongdoing. He denied the affair, he denied the child, are we supposed to believe he's telling the truth now?
I like Edwards but you made a great point.
Edwards - just another POS politician. These guys lie and lie and lie till they have no where to hide. Then they come clean and ask forgiveness and say they will be good. BS.
At least America was spared the pain of him being elected President so he could do to us what he did to Ms. Hunter.
What makes you think he did it to her? Maybe she did it to him.
He was bewitched by Hunter's [warped] vision of who he was. Clearly a case of Narcissism if there ever was one - applied to Edwards and Hunter who both evidently thought they were bullet proof. They saw their reflections in each other's eyes. LOL.
Yuck , Let the slut "winner" have the P.O.S.
You show me a man (Republican or Democrat) who cheats on his wife, and I'll show you a man (POS) who will cheat You and I in a business deal!
Well, that would be just about all the business men in the country or the world for that matter.
Keep in mind ,,, both men and women are capable of cheating !!
Lyman that's probably true about most politicians, but you'll also have to include most of the human race. People are only as faithful as their opportunities.
I understand both are capable,but this article is about (LOL) Dear John!
I know Lyman,
And boy we're having a field day with this one,,,, (LOL) "Dear John"
He's being "raked over the coals" today !!
That's "would cheat you and ME." Try to remember your basic grammar.
Thank you Spellchecker,or is that English Major!lol
So what? America is the land of infidelity, point blank; especially among the rich, powerful, and famous. If it was every possible to examine the lives of politicians, only a pitiful few would past the test of HONESTY and FAITHFULNESS. Within the category of the rich, well probably no one would be found to be HONEST or FAITHFULL. You know money has its' privaleges! The famous is a very sorry lot as spicy headlines and problems are daily occurances, along with every other poor behavior. So let us acknowledge that America is definitely a nation of ;'IF IT FELLS GOOD, OR YOU WANT IT, GO FOR IT; AND SCREW THE CONSEQUENCES!!!!!!'.
Well, that may be over generalizing. There are examples of fidelity although I must admit very few. Just remember; therew is a cheating woman for almost every cheating man! Some guys are on the down low.
It's not a gender issue ,,,,, both men and women are capable of cheating , and they do !!!!
When will we get in our heads, look at the evidence both scientific and anecdotal, and it's quite plain to see that mankind is not meant to be monogamous for life, very few and I mean very few life forms are. Unless you are mega-unattractive, if you have repeated opportunity to cheat with someone you are attracted to you will. It's nature calling. Yes you can have life long mates but very few are life long monogamous. If you've been married for 20 years and you are the one that cheated and got away with it you can feel a little relieved but chances are one of you have, but don't feel too relieved because both of you may have.
Reread original statement!!! No mention of gender, sexual orientation, or age!!
Just as easy for a woman to lift her dress an for a man to drop his pants. Just as easy for a woman to be dishonest as for a man to have his hand in the cookie jar. No difference between men and women when the topic is ethics.
Yes I agree Vucan One,
I certainly don't want to be the one to point "moral fingers"at humans for being human ,,,,,,!! I believe it's the" human condition" or the way we're made according to the laws of nature
Check out our divorce rate. Not that all splits are caused by cheating but a whole lot of it is. Also, a lot of folks never get caught or manage to keep current spouses if they do. Infidelity is hardly limited to the rich and powerful. Long-term same partner sex looses it's drawing power after a while for some reason. Of course once changed the different cow eventualy ends up being in the same pasture. Deja vue.
Look at it this way, Name one thing more imortant to Americans besides money. Ask the question of anyone, "What is really important to you? Americans do not believe in commitments. All commitments must have an escape clause.
Acknowledged!
It doesn't take being rich or being a politician or even being a man to be a cheater!!
Believe me, I know. My former husband cheated on me, according to him (when he got caught and couldn't lie out of it) with more than 500 other women. And guess what?!? We were POOR!!
I agree, but it is much harder to find a politician or rich person who is not a cheat, thief, or back stabber!!!
I am happy the Primary process sorted this out before he had the chance to run for President, sadly the lack of Family Values crosses party lines. My heart goes out to his wife.
Ofcoarse, we are assuming his wife is innocent.
Not sure what your talking about he is the one having a baby outside the marriage. No matter what the problems were between them nothing is solved by this kind of crap.
The age old story. The little hussy seduces the king and the queen is chagrinned.
Elithian - You really do not like woman do you.. As for you making comments about Elizabeth Edwards Prove It or STFU. I do agree with you on one point, woman who go after or get involved with married men knowingly are just as morally and ethically wrong. But please Leave Elizabeth Edwards alone unless you have proof.
Whatever you think Elizabeth did or did not do...she didn't tell him to baldfaced lie to everyone in sight. I think most voters would have forgiven an affair...even one that resulted in a child. However, having an affair while you are campaigning for President is reckless. And lying so elaborately to cover it up is stupid. And what about birth control? Or self control? All he cared about was damage control.
Elizabeth didn't do any of those things. He self destructed.
He did self destruct. He's not up to the big task.
@Elithian: People who publicly accuse others of moral wrongdoing -- in your case, Elizabeth Edwards -- but do not provide any verifiable proof of it, are people I don't waste time on.
Why is this SOB still in the news. He's a slimeball, a dirt bag,a dusch. He doesn't deserve even a word. What a con artist. How he deserves any sort of recognition is amazing. He should be smashing rocks in a prison somewhere.
I realize you're not a journalist, but the correct spelling of the item that women use for hygiene is "douche"
John Edwards, what a wanker. You both nailed it right on with the "douche", no matter whether you spell it correctly or incorrectly. Really nice guy "yeah, I'm really sorry that I denied this is my daughter until people really ratted me out - now I'm ready to step up to the plate and be a good dad". Yeah, John, right, you have about as much integrity as Tiger Woods and Nike summed up together. That poor little kid will someday read about this some day or otherwise become aware of this; hopefully she will have contempt for this jackass for the rest of her life. What an idiot, and to think we could have had him as President!
Just another rotting bad apple in the Washington apple barrel!!!!!
Perfectly spoken.
Can I ask why this is in the news. We all knew it already. Did anyone have any doubt? Why is this a breaking story? Months ago Mrs. Edwards was on the Today Show or some such and said Edwards needed to admit it and she hoped he would do it in a classy way...quietly and do the right thing.