all sad stories are great examples of poor parenting........period.....parents are the beginning and end of mentoring success.....if they fail, the child suffers...not a society issue, not a racism issue...just a parenting issue......shape up mom and dad...be there and lead...

The reason why boy's path to Manhood is obscured is because of the effects of radical 2nd and 3rd wave feminism. Considering that many todays 15-30 year old males grew up witnessing the liberated women destroy their family through divorce, why would they get married. The modern marriage dynamic is portrayed be the media as an imbecilic man married to a shrill bitchy woman, and these guys know that they themselves aren't imbecilic and don't want to enter into a relationship where a women expects to be the dominant partner. Also, a woman can become pregnant and do as she wishes with the man's future. Men have no say on whether they want parental responsibility they must go along with any decision the woman makes with the result of their act and his sperm, and probably wind up paying childsupport for a child that he never wanted. If women can shrug off their responsibility to a pregnancy, so should mens

The BIGGEST source of oppression to men comes from the us education system. Education was vastly, and mostly justly, changed in the late 70's early 80's to better carter to girls who were underachieveing at the time, and this was a real problem that needed correcting. BUT The education's systems framers over did it, they over-corrected, and now the teaching methods used too heavily favor girls and condemn an unjust number of boys to liveing lives beneth their potential. It is a big reason why the gender make up of colleges today is 43% male and 57% female. It should be about 47 male/53 female with the diference being a vast number of young men going into the military and then college later in their mid to late twenties.

With referance to young men moveing back home there are two causes:1. Not a great job market with the recession hiting men's fields of employment the hardest, not a cause of inequalty it's just the way it is and unemployment can help them 2. Society still expects men to be without any support and on their own WHILE it still finds women moveing back in with mom and dad an acceptable norm and is unjustly completely unquestioned.

Now that these facts are known think of how young men must think."okay I'm out of college, now I need a job, but what do I do after finding one...let's see 1. marriage will make my life miserable and result in my financial oppression. 2. Today's liberated woman will have pre-marital sex without neccisarily wanting a relationship... well, screw that noise.... time to play some halo and have peace and freedom in my life."

Ladies, it is not use who have caused this trend. You drove us to it. Thank you, we can now all sit back and watch the destruction of the family, then birthrates will plummet to where social programs can no longer be supported due to a gray hair heavy population..then when the institutions of socialization fail the nuclear family will then reappear due to it being entirely natural. And then feminism will die as it will then be known to only lead to societal declination, but with an understanding, and gain for women, that the gender-roles, while very good for people, shouldn't be strictly enforced and that the state should stay OUT of the gender role and identity discussion.