I'm the same size up top as you, but totally pear-shaped. It bugged me when I was younger, but now that I've had a child and used my breasts for their god intended purpose (and temporarily got all the way up to a C in the process), I'm 100% totally fine with me as I am.

The best part is that they went right back to normal with no funky sagging and unlike falsies, I don't have to rotate them out every 10 years, worry about them bursting if I'm being too active, etc.

Sweetheart, you can wear anything you want - even a strpless dress. It's called a tailor and/or Hollywood Fashion tape. Even bathing suits can be altered, and double-stick tape is pretty darn reliable when you don't have giant cans dragging your clothes down.

PS, if you need a lift (pun intended), hit up a Wal-Mart and check out the H-cups running around bra-less. It'll make you thankful to be part of the TLC.

You are (As you yourself protest) a beautiful, smart woman - Yet you post the longing for bigger breasts here? LOL

Audra,

I have the opposite problem, I am short and stocky with the world's slowest metabolism. Believe me, you are lucky. Enjoy it. I know what it is to hate to look in the mirror, but as you said, you are a beautiful, intelligent woman.

My boyfriend thinks I look fine which is fabulous...

Which should be good enough for you, audra, but, unfortunately, it's not. Anyway, one man's humble opinion: breast implants look just horrible.

I have seen one or two of these episodes and from what I can tell, most of these girls fiance's are idiots. We need wayyy more self worth as women today. We do not need a man to tell us our boobs are too small or our noses are too big. What we need is to find men who appreciate us for who we are inside and out. I am a voluptuous woman of 45, that could probably stand to get on the treadmill for a few, but my husband loves me for me and tells me I am beautiful every day. THAT is what it's all about folks!!

I dont think t his should be news. Who cares if these women compete for a huge wedding and plastic surgery. It cant be anyworse than the flavor of love or last chance for love, or any of the other stupid shows that show women acting like dogs in heat. I think this is a step up.

So can we move on to the important things like how people keep loosing jobs and their house and how states cant pay their bills anymore.

Fake titties are cool.

Look on the FDA's website if you want a more realistic view of the risks. This is not a one time job. You will have to have the implants replaced at your expense several times over the course of your life. As you get older, your skin will stretch and sag around the implant so you will need either larger implants or skin removed to get them to look better. Forget college for your kids, you will need a savings account for your fake breasts. You will more than likely develop scar tissue which will could make them as hard as softballs. I knew a woman who had implants and giving her a hug was uncomfortable. The scar tissue calcifies which is a form of rejection. Your body tries to protect you from the implant so it builds a wall around it. Also, many women develop a loss of sensitivity. Your nipples could become numb and it could be permanent. What if you are one of the unlucky women developed an autoimmune disorder? Implants are potential ticking time bombs for many. If I had all the money in the world I would not do this to myself. If you are as smart as you say you are you will cultivate self-acceptance. Think of all the time you have already wasted obsessing over your body and imagine the peace of mind you will have when you stop.

Fake titties are STILL cool.

Fake ta-tas are one of those things men drool over in a magazine but when it comes to real life, they don't want them. They aren't fun to play with I guess and men don't really want that type of girl (porn star). Well, a few men do but it's always the type of men that could never actually get that type of girl that chases after them. I've also come to find in my lifes journey that gentleman DON'T PREFER blondes. They again may drool in magazines but when meeting real life women they get more attracted to darker haired girls.

Yet chicks just keep dying their hair blonde to look like everyone else.

Here here. You couldn't have put it any better. All of pop culture is guilty of the lofty expectations and they need shows like this to sell all the crap they can to make you look like someone you're not. Someday someone will see you naked and clean, then what will you do?

Every time my fiancee needs time to put on her makeup I always ask her why. She is beautiful without it but yet she is convinced she needs to wear it.

These are all the lies that women tell. They wear makeup, you don't look that good. They wear heels, you aren't that tall. They wear Wonder bras you aren't that big. etc......

What I find even more hideous is the price of beauty. I can get a haircut for eight bucks. My fiancee leaves the salon after spending anywhere from 75-150 bucks.

Pop culture has everyone convinced they need help. Your skin tone is terrible, you aren't tall enough, you weigh to much, your teeth aren't white enough, your lips aren't plump enough.................What the hell happened to unique individuals? Why does everyone want to look like everyone else?

When my kids complain about anything that has to do with their appearance I ask them why they want to insult mom and dad by telling us we didn't do a good job.

Every one of us was created by two other people. You are the combination of those two people, you aren't the vision of every magazine, TV show, Movie and all other pop cultural BS you see and read every day.

Accept yourself and not what others think of you and the world will be a much better place.

WOW, that felt like a Dr. Phil moment. Oops another pop culture reference.

Well Browns I'm glad you feel that way about your fiancee (that she is beautiful without all that crap)

but unfortunately your gender-mates do kind of put pressure on girls because they will drool over make-up'd, rock hard body, $150 salon made hair leading women to believe we DO need it.

If dudes would let up and not go for the fake girl in the bar but rather the normal one, maybe we wouldn't try so hard.

There is no reason to be offended by a word. If you hear it often enough you will be desensitized and we can get over ourselves already.

Think of it this way, if someone speaks a foreign language that you don't understand and then proceeds to insult you with a smile on his face, would you be offended not knowing what he just said?

What concerns me is not hearing sir or maam anymore. People wearing hats indoors. The complete and utter lack of respect for elders. This, to me, is much more important than a word.

Okay, my soap box needs to be burned now.

Wow, how refreshing! Someone who actually NOTICES the corsening of language and objects (politely and articulately!) We're on the losing side of this one of course, but I salute your civility.

I hear that Bridezilla show does follow ups and a large amount of showcased weddings end up in divorce. I think when you get into a marriage you then see how shallow/rude someone is. My brother didn't notice how much of a douche his wife was until after they got married, and asked us all why we didn't tell him before. Well, before he seemed happy with her so we didn't want to make him mad. Now he sees her real attitude and it's either because the pre-wedding bliss haze cleared or she just let it loose more after the wedding, who knows. But after these shows, or maybe even by seeing these shows, the couples start to see how shallow and psycho the other is.

This just goes to show that the people with money and power make all the rules and we are idiots for falling for the lies.

All the common people, the majority of society, have been reduced to commodities. It has gotten to the point where we are told how to look, how to act and most importantly, how to spend our money.

This is how life will continue as long as we keep buying into this marketing song and dance and as long as we keep electing people to office that have NO idea what it is like to live as a middle class or lower citizen.

How is it that all these people seem to think they can make our lives better when they have no idea what it is like to live like us? You can't fix something when you don't know how it works. Instead they just reprogram us.

They start with all the commercials on Disney and Nickelodeon which grooms kids into thinking that magical box must have all the answers. How many times your kid wants a toy so bad. because of the commercial, but when they get it they don't like it because it didn't come with all the background stuff, the added sound effects the slow motion video shots? There was a time that advertisers were told they could no longer use that tactic but it's back and better than ever. Kids don't know any better. You could have a commercial about poop and make it sound great enough that your kids would beg you to purchase it.

Think about it.

THis isn't about disagreeing with those who want plastic surgery to look better for themselves. This is about glamorizing those who are so desperate to "transform" themselves for their "big day" that they're not even aware they're being mocked and ridiculed for their insecurities on national television. Do you think this program is done as a public service? (And really, you don't know anyone who is pretty satisfied with the way they look?? Really???) Ok, what about changing yourself before your lifetime commitment to someone who supposedly has professed his love for you just the way you are? Anything wrong with that picture??

Best post yet!!!

what a great view...maybe some of Amerika's illeagal aliens could volunteer to participate in this for rights to be a citizen there

You're right. And pathetically, there are still young women who line up for the priviledge. Wow. Real progress over the last half century.

This from someone SELLING more "here, make yourself look better" junk? And to children at that.

Because no one but Americans indulges in plastic surgery?? (Have you traveled at ALL???)

America really is too arrogant,ignorant,and a list too large to post here.No wonder why everyone hates us.We preach no torture then do it ourselves.A woman sues McDonald's because there is not a warning label to tell her it's too hot.With that common sense,how does she even have a license?WARNING:driving may result in death or worse lady.We judge corrupt governments yet ours also is.(Research lobbying if you REALLY don't believe so).We shove democracy down everyone's throats,whether they like it or not.Child molester gets 3 years.Guy with 9 DUI's just killed an 8 year old girl a few days ago.Apparently you have to REALLY do something bad before anything is done about it.Goldman Sach's had resulted in a law basically telling people to RUN A COMPANY ETHICALLY.Insider trading happens all the time.Bernie Madoff made billions,signed it over to his wife so nothing can be taken back.There is no system in place to verify SS#'s.I know MANY illegal immigrants who have a fake.I called ICE to report illegals,I basically received an answer"We're working on it".They didn't ask for any info.Congress people haven't paid taxes in years yet continue to run things.Here in FL,Rick Scott spent $100 million plus to get a job which pays about $150,000/year.Does he really care that much or will he make double it back from 'lobbyists'?He paid people who worked for him during his campaign with Visa prepaid gift cards.Everyone outsources customer service to India or wherever,INCLUDING BILL GATES,then wonders why unemployment is 10%+.The language barrier really tests your patience.Plus 1 Gigamore reasons.

MERRY CHRISTMAS! To anyone offended by that statement in USA,read your money then just give it to me.