Diagnosing 4 year olds with ADHD and medicating them. Homosexuality was a "disorder". Now shy teens have "social phobia".
People, it's what's called "the human experience". And, it's wonderful because everyone has a different one, not because everyone is alike or fits within some arbitrary definition of "normal" determined by some anonymous group of egomaniacal quasi-science PHDs.
When will we kick these charlatans preaching their cult of psychology to the curb? It's ridiculous.
Sigh...just once I'd like to see a story about science without the armchair science critics coming out of the woodwork to critique scientific papers they've never even read. To address the comments above:
Diagnosing 4 year olds with ADHD and medicating them. Homosexuality was a "disorder". Now shy teens have "social phobia".
People, it's what's called "the human experience". And, it's wonderful because everyone has a different one, not because everyone is alike or fits within some arbitrary definition of "normal" determined by some anonymous group of egomaniacal quasi-science PHDs.
When will we kick these charlatans preaching their cult of psychology to the curb? It's ridiculous.
First of all, the article didn't say that all shy people have social phobia. In fact, both the scientists themselves and the news article *BOTH* made it very clear that this refers only to a minority of people that are considered "shy". In the future, please read and understand before you criticize.
Secondly, you seem to have no understanding whatsoever of the criteria that psychologists use to determine whether something should be considered a diagnosable disorder. To quote from the introduction to DSM-IV: "In DSM-IV, each of the mental disorders is conceptualized as a clinically significant behavioral or psychological syndrome or pattern that occurs in an individual and that is associated with present distress (e.g. painful symptom) or disability (i.e. impairment in one or more important areas of functioning or with a significantly increased risk of suffering death, pain, disability, or an important loss of freedom. In addition, this syndrome or pattern must not be merely an expectable and culturally sanctioned response to a particular event, for example, the death of a loved one."
The introduction to DSM-IV includes a much longer discussion of what should and should not be considered a diagnosable to disorder. I would suggest that you read and make sure you fully understand all of this before you criticize.
@ doggiemom: Why do people automatically think that any medication that is intended to help with psychological symptoms automatically is some kind of scam? Many of the same people that write nonsense like you just did will take blood pressure medicine, insulin for diabetes, antibiotics, and a host of other medications. Why is it that medications are ok to help other organs but not the brain?
@ Richard-1971294: Ahhh yes. Once again, the old Science Story Rule applies: If a scientific result is something you expected, then you think the study was a waste of time because "everyone already knew that". If the scientific result is something you DIDN'T expect, then you think the study was a waste of time because, you know, it just isn't possible that your view of the world might have been wrong in some way.
Of course, if you had taken the time to read the peer reviewed research (heck, even the news story!) you would have learned that the term "social phobia" refers to a very specific set of symptoms. It's just a general catch-all term for anyone that is shy. In fact, the whole point of the peer reviewed paper (you know, the one you didn't bother to read) was to distinguish between social phobia and normal shyness. The authors did all sorts of sciency and mathy things that you wouldn't understand.
I see you're fully bought in. Do you make money diagnosing and/or treating people with "disorders"? I'd imagine you've at least thought about it if you're able to quote the DSM.
Regardless, all of your arguments assume the truth of your conclusion. That is, they're circular. Therefore, while they sound authoritative because you appeal to the "authority" of the DSM, they fail.
What you've done above is the secular equivalent of an Islamic person quoting to Qur'an to attempt to disprove the assertions of scientists debating evolution.
For example, everything you've said assumes:
(i) The validity of psychology. Your statement assumes we should give credence to the internally inconsistent pseudo-science, pseudo-religion that is psychology. I give it no such credence--which I made clear in my initial post.
Psychology resembles Greek mythology more than it resembles Western medicine or any empirical science.
For example, to which theorist demi-god do you ascribe, or do you give some credence to all? Are you a follower of the temple of Freud, demi-god of the ego and sex? Are you a follower of Jung, his rogue disciple? Are you a follower of Pavlov and Skinner with their legions of conditioned dogs and mice? Are you a follower of Bandura, Rogers, etc. I could go on.
Your demi-gods disagree. How do you differentiate and how do you rank?
Moreover, from where does a psychologist's/psychiatrist's "power" to disgnose another human being derive? Who gave you the power? The University of [____] in the form of a piece of paper? Where does their power derive? Does it derive from one of the above mentioned demi-gods? If so, where does your demi-gods power to diagnose derive--is ti from his theory that we all disagree about? At the end of the day, you're left with a man and an unproven, contested theory as your source of authority. As such, psychologists have no authority except the authority we sheep choose to give them.
Psychologists are bogeyman sophists. If we ignore them, they will go away. If we examine them, their house of cards collapses.
(ii) The concept of "disorder". "Disorder" is necessarily defined by reference to "order". "Order" in the realm of psychology is "normal". Therefore, talking about a psychological "disorder" necessarily assumes that (i) "normal" is knowable, (ii) that we can all agree what "normal" is, (iii) that we can all agree that deviations from "normal" are negative and why and (iv) the we can all agree on the magnitude of deviation to deem negative and why.
These assumptions obviously do not hold. Even if we assume, arbitrarily, that psychologists/psychiatrist are somehow ordained to determine "normal" for society (see above) and "abnormal", even they can't agree. Look at the recent attempt to include ephebophilia in the DSM-V for example. It comes down to a vote by the DSM editing body. Who the heck nominated these people to determine "normalcy"? I sure didn't.
Moreover, how is "normal" even objectively knowable if human existence is a steady stream of subjective experience and subjective response? Everyone experiences things differently. Everyone reacts differently. How can you draw a line and say "okay, you're experience/reaction is "normal"; yours is a "disorder". You can't other than by reference to the concept of "normal" defined as "x standard deviations from the mean". It's egomania to the nth degree to even think you're qualified to undertake such an operation, much less to actually undertake it.
And, again, what is the "mean" "normal" consciousness and why are we concerned with strict adherence to it?
(iii) Authority of DSM. This objection follows from the above. Why are we giving Biblical credence to the DSM? Who ordained its quasi-anonymous authors/editors? From where does it derive its authority?
..................
I could keep going, but I trust you now get the point.
What a collective bunch of whiners we have become. We can't function without having a self help book and a bottle of pills at hand, or a support group to belong to, or a fancy medical term to describe things like the weird reaction that we have when unpleasant relatives visit. We Google information left and right to see if others are as screwed up as we are, or to find out if little Debbie doesn't eat her vegetables because of a strange phobia caused by chemicals that are in the made-in-China kitchen table. Life is beautiful and life sucks. The perfection that we seek doesn't exist, yet we knock our heads against the wall in pursuit of it. Love your shy children, encourage them, be there for them. They'll find their own way eventually. Also, Google, "famous shy people". I shudder to think of the creative turn that Emily Dickinson's life might have taken, had she been treated for her shyness. Many have blossomed in spite of shyness, or - on an odd way - because of it.
I'm not sure what to think about all these new social disorders that seem to be appearing lately, but I can actually relate to this one. I have always painfully shy my entire life. I don't fit in well at social events like parties or where there are a lot of people. And I absolutely hate having to go into a new office, for example, mostly because I have to meet a lot of new people. What I have discovered over the years though is that the reason I am so shy is because I am what the call face blind. I can meet someone one day and see that same person on the street the next day and not recognize them. It takes me an inordinately long time to learn to recognize faces. It's embarrassing. I tend to shy away from people because I'm afraid that they might know me, but I won't recognize them. I can't tell you how many times someone has come up to me and talked to me like I was their old long lost friend and I didn't have a clue who they were. I've tried all the tricks for remembering names and faces and none of it works. Although I've never sought treatment, I often wonder whether I don't have something that is a disorder that can be treated. So don't be too quick to judge when it comes to new social orders.
I don't know what to think of it either, but I'm not so quick to judge as the others on this board. It's so easy to pooh-pooh a problem you don't have yourself, say it's not real and that people with mental problems are normal or making mountains out of molehills.
I wonder if there's a diagnosis for holier-than-thou disorder?
I'm also terrible with faces. And eye colors. And names. And at remembering anything they said to me. I also can't remember clothes (most of the time I don't have the foggiest clue what I'm wearing). I have a very hard time with eye contact, mainly because I can't figure out which eye I'm supposed to be staring at -- or am I supposed to look at the bridge of their nose? I end up staring at their lips, after all, those are the parts that are moving around when they talk so it's only natural they catch my attention.
Of course, most of the time my only goal in a conversation with a new person is how to end it before the other person realizes I'm having a panic attack, and without them thinking I'm too much of a frothing lunatic.
Unbelievable. It never ends. The "experts" have found something else wrong that they can make money from. I guess they have to justify their existence too.
I think its called social anxiety. I've had it my whole life. I've always been labeled as quiet. Its not a bad thing. Once I'm comfortable in a situation I can open up. Alcohol works the best.
I have a son with Selective Mutism, which is very similar. He has struggled since pre-k (he's now in 9th grade) to speak to anyone other than his parents, siblings or peers. He would NEVER speak to ANY adults other than his parents. Not grandparents, aunts, uncles, teachers, etc. He would speak easily with his peers as long as he thought no adult could hear him. We resisted medication for many years. Finally, in grade 6, we decided that he should give a medication a "test run". The difference was astounding! Now mind you, his disorder was severe. We're talking about a person who would get the "deer in the headlights" look as soon as an adult addressed him. He would stare off, and often silently cry, rather than speak. He wouldn't even communicate if he was in pain. I do agree that many people are labeled as having a disorder, when what they probably have is just a variant of "normal". Some people are more shy, some more outgoing. There will be degrees both ways. But there are extremes, and they are dibilitating. They do exist. And many of them do respond to treatment. Luckily, our son is one of them. He is now medication free, and although he still struggles, he has developed the tools he needs to deal with even his most challenging situations.
This is my daughter in a nutshell. She is 23 now and we struggled for years to find someway of treating this debilitating condition. She is considerably better now and no longer on medication. Without therapy and medication, I don't think she would have made it through her teen years. Selective Mutism and Social Phobia are what her problems were labelled as. She was like this from the time she was a small child. Many people want to believe this isn't real, or they will grow out of it. It is easy to downplay something you don't understand, don't have or don't have to watch someone you love going through. I fought indifference and disbelief for years to get her the help she needed.
I'm 33 and have fairly severe social anxiety/agoraphobia. Still not sure which definition really fits best. The more social a situation is, the more "freeform" (as opposed to a class or show where everybody has defined "roles"), the more people I don't know are present, the more anxious I feel. Parties and dances are the absolute worst. I get panic attacks. I start to feel like I'm drowning. I get vertigo, shortness of breath, heart palpitations, and just an overwhelming desire to get out NOW.
I'm still not sure exactly what I'm afraid of. But I'm not happy being a recluse. I feel shut in and alone. But it's hard to face the panic attacks when I go out, and when an event is coming up I spend the week or so beforehand in a state of anticipatory worry. How bad will my panic attacks be? Will I be disturbing or bothering other people? Will I ruin their time, making them worry about if I'm feeling unwell?
I do get tired of an endless string of concerned looking faces asking "are you ok? What's wrong?" whenever I go out. I don't know how to pretend like I'm happy.
But where did it come from? I don't know. Maybe I need therapy. It's probably too simple to say its because I was bullied and excluded as a kid. I don't like using "I had a rough childhood" as an excuse, especially when it was a thousand times better than people who really had tough childhoods. But maybe it's accurate to say that most people get social practice when growing up that I missed out on. Maybe there's a critical age where social connections are being made in the brain during which I was totally cut off.
All the things I've read say that to get over it, I need, basically, immersian therapy. Meaning that I have to force myself to enter into social situations and, if I suffer a panic attack, I absolutely must stay in the situation until the panic subsides. This is the only way for my brain to internalize that the situation is actually safe, that panic will go away, and that I don't actually have to flee.
That is so hard I don't know if I can do it. I only have opportunity to face a handful of social situations a year, and I don't know if that would be sufficient. Would all my progress be eliminated in the intervening months? What about all the people at these things, won't having a panicked and stressed out stranger shaking and crying in the corner be a little disturbing?
See a therapist today! Don't waste another precious day of your life needlessly suffering. Bear in mind that it will probably take a combination of teatments, and several (maybe many) tries to find the right ones for you. And you may need to see several therapists before you find the "right" one. But don't give up! You get one go 'round, don't waste it! BTW-You may also benefit from trying out biofeedback.
NO NO NO! This is just another EXCUSE for the psychology AND psychiatric industry to start LABELING AND DRUGGING PEOPLE! These studies are the kinds of things that they LOVE! This is despicable!
SHAME on whoever conducted this "research"...just because someone is shy, does NOT mean they have a "phobia"...it JUST means that they take LONGER to warm up to different people! There is NOTHING wrong with that, and yet all these people...the shy, introverted, loners, are being treated as though they are not human, but rather, something to be fixed. Makes me sick.
I absolutely DESPISE the way extroverts and outgoing people are put on a higher pedestal than introverts....people think that extroverts are better than shy people, because they're SUPER social.....and that is disgusting, and not true.
Diagnosing 4 year olds with ADHD and medicating them. Homosexuality was a "disorder". Now shy teens have "social phobia".
People, it's what's called "the human experience". And, it's wonderful because everyone has a different one, not because everyone is alike or fits within some arbitrary definition of "normal" determined by some anonymous group of egomaniacal quasi-science PHDs.
When will we kick these charlatans preaching their cult of psychology to the curb? It's ridiculous.
But the drug companies can make money off of it I am sure. Doctors and drug companies will not be happy until we are all druged and all act the same.
Wow, amazing, I never thought somebody who was shy might actually fear social contact.
FACE PALM moment.
I need to be medicated after having read about this study.
Sigh...just once I'd like to see a story about science without the armchair science critics coming out of the woodwork to critique scientific papers they've never even read. To address the comments above:
First of all, the article didn't say that all shy people have social phobia. In fact, both the scientists themselves and the news article *BOTH* made it very clear that this refers only to a minority of people that are considered "shy". In the future, please read and understand before you criticize.
Secondly, you seem to have no understanding whatsoever of the criteria that psychologists use to determine whether something should be considered a diagnosable disorder. To quote from the introduction to DSM-IV: "In DSM-IV, each of the mental disorders is conceptualized as a clinically significant behavioral or psychological syndrome or pattern that occurs in an individual and that is associated with present distress (e.g. painful symptom) or disability (i.e. impairment in one or more important areas of functioning or with a significantly increased risk of suffering death, pain, disability, or an important loss of freedom. In addition, this syndrome or pattern must not be merely an expectable and culturally sanctioned response to a particular event, for example, the death of a loved one."
The introduction to DSM-IV includes a much longer discussion of what should and should not be considered a diagnosable to disorder. I would suggest that you read and make sure you fully understand all of this before you criticize.
@ doggiemom: Why do people automatically think that any medication that is intended to help with psychological symptoms automatically is some kind of scam? Many of the same people that write nonsense like you just did will take blood pressure medicine, insulin for diabetes, antibiotics, and a host of other medications. Why is it that medications are ok to help other organs but not the brain?
@ Richard-1971294: Ahhh yes. Once again, the old Science Story Rule applies: If a scientific result is something you expected, then you think the study was a waste of time because "everyone already knew that". If the scientific result is something you DIDN'T expect, then you think the study was a waste of time because, you know, it just isn't possible that your view of the world might have been wrong in some way.
Of course, if you had taken the time to read the peer reviewed research (heck, even the news story!) you would have learned that the term "social phobia" refers to a very specific set of symptoms. It's just a general catch-all term for anyone that is shy. In fact, the whole point of the peer reviewed paper (you know, the one you didn't bother to read) was to distinguish between social phobia and normal shyness. The authors did all sorts of sciency and mathy things that you wouldn't understand.
Junicon.
I see you're fully bought in. Do you make money diagnosing and/or treating people with "disorders"? I'd imagine you've at least thought about it if you're able to quote the DSM.
Regardless, all of your arguments assume the truth of your conclusion. That is, they're circular. Therefore, while they sound authoritative because you appeal to the "authority" of the DSM, they fail.
What you've done above is the secular equivalent of an Islamic person quoting to Qur'an to attempt to disprove the assertions of scientists debating evolution.
For example, everything you've said assumes:
(i) The validity of psychology. Your statement assumes we should give credence to the internally inconsistent pseudo-science, pseudo-religion that is psychology. I give it no such credence--which I made clear in my initial post.
Psychology resembles Greek mythology more than it resembles Western medicine or any empirical science.
For example, to which theorist demi-god do you ascribe, or do you give some credence to all? Are you a follower of the temple of Freud, demi-god of the ego and sex? Are you a follower of Jung, his rogue disciple? Are you a follower of Pavlov and Skinner with their legions of conditioned dogs and mice? Are you a follower of Bandura, Rogers, etc. I could go on.
Your demi-gods disagree. How do you differentiate and how do you rank?
Moreover, from where does a psychologist's/psychiatrist's "power" to disgnose another human being derive? Who gave you the power? The University of [____] in the form of a piece of paper? Where does their power derive? Does it derive from one of the above mentioned demi-gods? If so, where does your demi-gods power to diagnose derive--is ti from his theory that we all disagree about? At the end of the day, you're left with a man and an unproven, contested theory as your source of authority. As such, psychologists have no authority except the authority we sheep choose to give them.
Psychologists are bogeyman sophists. If we ignore them, they will go away. If we examine them, their house of cards collapses.
(ii) The concept of "disorder". "Disorder" is necessarily defined by reference to "order". "Order" in the realm of psychology is "normal". Therefore, talking about a psychological "disorder" necessarily assumes that (i) "normal" is knowable, (ii) that we can all agree what "normal" is, (iii) that we can all agree that deviations from "normal" are negative and why and (iv) the we can all agree on the magnitude of deviation to deem negative and why.
These assumptions obviously do not hold. Even if we assume, arbitrarily, that psychologists/psychiatrist are somehow ordained to determine "normal" for society (see above) and "abnormal", even they can't agree. Look at the recent attempt to include ephebophilia in the DSM-V for example. It comes down to a vote by the DSM editing body. Who the heck nominated these people to determine "normalcy"? I sure didn't.
Moreover, how is "normal" even objectively knowable if human existence is a steady stream of subjective experience and subjective response? Everyone experiences things differently. Everyone reacts differently. How can you draw a line and say "okay, you're experience/reaction is "normal"; yours is a "disorder". You can't other than by reference to the concept of "normal" defined as "x standard deviations from the mean". It's egomania to the nth degree to even think you're qualified to undertake such an operation, much less to actually undertake it.
And, again, what is the "mean" "normal" consciousness and why are we concerned with strict adherence to it?
(iii) Authority of DSM. This objection follows from the above. Why are we giving Biblical credence to the DSM? Who ordained its quasi-anonymous authors/editors? From where does it derive its authority?
..................
I could keep going, but I trust you now get the point.
What a collective bunch of whiners we have become. We can't function without having a self help book and a bottle of pills at hand, or a support group to belong to, or a fancy medical term to describe things like the weird reaction that we have when unpleasant relatives visit. We Google information left and right to see if others are as screwed up as we are, or to find out if little Debbie doesn't eat her vegetables because of a strange phobia caused by chemicals that are in the made-in-China kitchen table. Life is beautiful and life sucks. The perfection that we seek doesn't exist, yet we knock our heads against the wall in pursuit of it. Love your shy children, encourage them, be there for them. They'll find their own way eventually. Also, Google, "famous shy people". I shudder to think of the creative turn that Emily Dickinson's life might have taken, had she been treated for her shyness. Many have blossomed in spite of shyness, or - on an odd way - because of it.
I'm not sure what to think about all these new social disorders that seem to be appearing lately, but I can actually relate to this one. I have always painfully shy my entire life. I don't fit in well at social events like parties or where there are a lot of people. And I absolutely hate having to go into a new office, for example, mostly because I have to meet a lot of new people. What I have discovered over the years though is that the reason I am so shy is because I am what the call face blind. I can meet someone one day and see that same person on the street the next day and not recognize them. It takes me an inordinately long time to learn to recognize faces. It's embarrassing. I tend to shy away from people because I'm afraid that they might know me, but I won't recognize them. I can't tell you how many times someone has come up to me and talked to me like I was their old long lost friend and I didn't have a clue who they were. I've tried all the tricks for remembering names and faces and none of it works. Although I've never sought treatment, I often wonder whether I don't have something that is a disorder that can be treated. So don't be too quick to judge when it comes to new social orders.
I don't know what to think of it either, but I'm not so quick to judge as the others on this board. It's so easy to pooh-pooh a problem you don't have yourself, say it's not real and that people with mental problems are normal or making mountains out of molehills.
I wonder if there's a diagnosis for holier-than-thou disorder?
I'm also terrible with faces. And eye colors. And names. And at remembering anything they said to me. I also can't remember clothes (most of the time I don't have the foggiest clue what I'm wearing). I have a very hard time with eye contact, mainly because I can't figure out which eye I'm supposed to be staring at -- or am I supposed to look at the bridge of their nose? I end up staring at their lips, after all, those are the parts that are moving around when they talk so it's only natural they catch my attention.
Of course, most of the time my only goal in a conversation with a new person is how to end it before the other person realizes I'm having a panic attack, and without them thinking I'm too much of a frothing lunatic.
What is the difference if you call it "shyness" or a "social phobia"? Same thing with a different name....
Unbelievable. It never ends. The "experts" have found something else wrong that they can make money from. I guess they have to justify their existence too.
Hey, just make and sell a pill for this one too.
I think its called social anxiety. I've had it my whole life. I've always been labeled as quiet. Its not a bad thing. Once I'm comfortable in a situation I can open up. Alcohol works the best.
Gotta agree. I was a shy kid in high school. Went to my 5 year reunion, got hammered and danced on the tables. :-)
I have a son with Selective Mutism, which is very similar. He has struggled since pre-k (he's now in 9th grade) to speak to anyone other than his parents, siblings or peers. He would NEVER speak to ANY adults other than his parents. Not grandparents, aunts, uncles, teachers, etc. He would speak easily with his peers as long as he thought no adult could hear him. We resisted medication for many years. Finally, in grade 6, we decided that he should give a medication a "test run". The difference was astounding! Now mind you, his disorder was severe. We're talking about a person who would get the "deer in the headlights" look as soon as an adult addressed him. He would stare off, and often silently cry, rather than speak. He wouldn't even communicate if he was in pain. I do agree that many people are labeled as having a disorder, when what they probably have is just a variant of "normal". Some people are more shy, some more outgoing. There will be degrees both ways. But there are extremes, and they are dibilitating. They do exist. And many of them do respond to treatment. Luckily, our son is one of them. He is now medication free, and although he still struggles, he has developed the tools he needs to deal with even his most challenging situations.
This is my daughter in a nutshell. She is 23 now and we struggled for years to find someway of treating this debilitating condition. She is considerably better now and no longer on medication. Without therapy and medication, I don't think she would have made it through her teen years. Selective Mutism and Social Phobia are what her problems were labelled as. She was like this from the time she was a small child. Many people want to believe this isn't real, or they will grow out of it. It is easy to downplay something you don't understand, don't have or don't have to watch someone you love going through. I fought indifference and disbelief for years to get her the help she needed.
I'm 33 and have fairly severe social anxiety/agoraphobia. Still not sure which definition really fits best. The more social a situation is, the more "freeform" (as opposed to a class or show where everybody has defined "roles"), the more people I don't know are present, the more anxious I feel. Parties and dances are the absolute worst. I get panic attacks. I start to feel like I'm drowning. I get vertigo, shortness of breath, heart palpitations, and just an overwhelming desire to get out NOW.
I'm still not sure exactly what I'm afraid of. But I'm not happy being a recluse. I feel shut in and alone. But it's hard to face the panic attacks when I go out, and when an event is coming up I spend the week or so beforehand in a state of anticipatory worry. How bad will my panic attacks be? Will I be disturbing or bothering other people? Will I ruin their time, making them worry about if I'm feeling unwell?
I do get tired of an endless string of concerned looking faces asking "are you ok? What's wrong?" whenever I go out. I don't know how to pretend like I'm happy.
But where did it come from? I don't know. Maybe I need therapy. It's probably too simple to say its because I was bullied and excluded as a kid. I don't like using "I had a rough childhood" as an excuse, especially when it was a thousand times better than people who really had tough childhoods. But maybe it's accurate to say that most people get social practice when growing up that I missed out on. Maybe there's a critical age where social connections are being made in the brain during which I was totally cut off.
All the things I've read say that to get over it, I need, basically, immersian therapy. Meaning that I have to force myself to enter into social situations and, if I suffer a panic attack, I absolutely must stay in the situation until the panic subsides. This is the only way for my brain to internalize that the situation is actually safe, that panic will go away, and that I don't actually have to flee.
That is so hard I don't know if I can do it. I only have opportunity to face a handful of social situations a year, and I don't know if that would be sufficient. Would all my progress be eliminated in the intervening months? What about all the people at these things, won't having a panicked and stressed out stranger shaking and crying in the corner be a little disturbing?
See a therapist today! Don't waste another precious day of your life needlessly suffering. Bear in mind that it will probably take a combination of teatments, and several (maybe many) tries to find the right ones for you. And you may need to see several therapists before you find the "right" one. But don't give up! You get one go 'round, don't waste it! BTW-You may also benefit from trying out biofeedback.
NO NO NO! This is just another EXCUSE for the psychology AND psychiatric industry to start LABELING AND DRUGGING PEOPLE! These studies are the kinds of things that they LOVE! This is despicable!
SHAME on whoever conducted this "research"...just because someone is shy, does NOT mean they have a "phobia"...it JUST means that they take LONGER to warm up to different people! There is NOTHING wrong with that, and yet all these people...the shy, introverted, loners, are being treated as though they are not human, but rather, something to be fixed. Makes me sick.
I absolutely DESPISE the way extroverts and outgoing people are put on a higher pedestal than introverts....people think that extroverts are better than shy people, because they're SUPER social.....and that is disgusting, and not true.